"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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this is how you do it

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Read some posts about asking her phone number while shes cashiering....ummm ok.


So i was waiting to pay. She seen me before and just made small talk and smiles...its her job whatevs.

But next time i saw her i was in a good mood so i initiated talk this time.

Shes fun...seems fun. But i like her eyes and shes really looking into my eyes right so im like fvck it.


There was people waiting to pay behind me so while shes giving me my receipt i whip out my phone and say whats ur number so we can party later. Boom...she gives it up. Totally not weird. Just 2 kids talking.


See....people dont care if you strike out or not. Thats ur insecurity showing.
I forgot who the user was that posted about how to ask out a cashier. But he needz to be schooled.

Anyway we need more lay reportz instead of questions like is she a bpd...everyday ur not fingering or laying pipe or even cuddling a girl...you better have a good excuse like ur working.
Otherwise im assuming your genes will not go on in thiz world and im glad. Cuz we want winners.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Did you tell her your boundaries? ;)
 

No.Danny

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Atom Smasher said:
Did you tell her your boundaries? ;)
Oh stop it you:crackup: :crackup:
 
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