"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This is how women work with no contact

JdelaSilviera

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Women behaviour (at least from my experience) could not be more predictable.

First most women I know have some kind of ADHD, which is aggravated by the fact they are always interrupting what they're doing to check their cellphones, people with ADHD have a really hard time connecting to others, that's why many women just jump from c*ck to c*ck. But, on the other end they are hypersensitive to a guy who just tells them to fvck off and they will become obsessed by him for a long time.

For instance, my ex broke up with me and I went no contact. Women can also handle no contact for longer than most guys, because they have so much attention, but they will eventually come back if you are brutally cold. My ex contacts every 4 months or so, and I never had the initiative to contact her. Although let's say that if hypotetically after three months I contacted her, she would feel her ego boosted, and perhaps would say nothing again, this is how women work.

Also this girl is so attention *****, that if I have some activity on facebook (which is rare), she will say something also. For instance I noticed she commented on a photo on a mutually girl friend we have (they are not even close) a couple months ago (just noticed yesterday), and I just said to myself, I'm sure I did something around that time. In that day I have only made one like at 18:15 (my only activity that day), and her comment was at 18:16. A big coincidence at best since neither of us are very active on facebook...

Women need for attention is just sick....
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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My ex bigamist wh0re "wife" is one real messed up bvtch. Her son is going through a legal battle right now with her trying to take he and his wife's baby. He engaged my help because of my law enforcment background. I did an update background check on her a few weeks ago and obtained a police report from the summer of 2013 where a friend of hers called the cops because she was suicidal. He and her live about 200 miles apart and had been talking on the phone. In the police report, she told the cop that she threatened to kill herself because "I just needed some attention at the time".

SO yeah, WOW. There was nobody there to pay attention to her so she threantened to kill herself? Yep...
 

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logicallefty said:
My ex bigamist wh0re "wife" is one real messed up bvtch. Her son is going through a legal battle right now with her trying to take he and his wife's baby. He engaged my help because of my law enforcment background. I did an update background check on her a few weeks ago and obtained a police report from the summer of 2013 where a friend of hers called the cops because she was suicidal. He and her live about 200 miles apart and had been talking on the phone. In the police report, she told the cop that she threatened to kill herself because "I just needed some attention at the time".

SO yeah, WOW. There was nobody there to pay attention to her so she threantened to kill herself? Yep...
Sorry to be off-topic but I'm curious, on what grounds is she trying to take her son's baby away from him?
 

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To me - it doesn't really work. Yes, the women normally come back around and ping you and say they miss you, etc.

But it's normally only a temporary way to hang out one more night (or week) before she goes crazy again.

I also agree with the ADHD thing but would add that social media (dating sites and apps are included in that) plays right into that.

That's why i go no contact for my own sanity.

Women with issues you don't like - can't really be fixed without authentic therapy.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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