"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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This Is How Jack Does It...

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When it comes to women, it's all about power, baby.

Which is another way to say it's all about perceived value. Jack is a fat, aging, and out of shape lump of flesh, but women willingly blind themselves to that fact because perceived value eclipses the mere visual. There's a lot for us to learn in that. Of course he did establish himself when he was younger and thinner, though I don't recall him ever being in great shape.

We should always be asking ourselves, how can we increase personal power and how can we project it?

If I were to describe jack in one word I would say "ruthless". Ruthlessness is a huge turn-on to women but like anything else it must be calibrated. Hence our constant dilemma. Wouldn't it be nice if we were able to paint on a face every day and attract the opposite sex just by virtue of a little putty and paint?

This is why it is man's righteous place to rule the world. Men FORGE themselves. Women paint themselves.
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Atom Smasher said:
Which is another way to say it's all about perceived value. Jack is a fat, aging, and out of shape lump of flesh, but women willingly blind themselves to that fact because perceived value eclipses the mere visual. There's a lot for us to learn in that. Of course he did establish himself when he was younger and thinner, though I don't recall him ever being in great shape.
Yeah, he's never seemed like the gym rat type. My ex-wife used to like to watch Terms of Endearment. There's a scene in there where he takes his shirt off to have sex with Shirley Maclaine. My ex-wife would always laugh at his huge gut hanging out, but she was still clearly charmed by him. I think he was around 46 when he was in that.

It just goes go to show you don't have to be a slave to the gym to be popular with the ladies. Jack has never been the Greek god type, but he does have a distinctive face (presumably handsome) - very big smile, lots of capped teeth no doubt. But I think the secret to Nicholson's popularity is force of personality.
 
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