"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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This Is How Jack Does It...

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When it comes to women, it's all about power, baby.

Which is another way to say it's all about perceived value. Jack is a fat, aging, and out of shape lump of flesh, but women willingly blind themselves to that fact because perceived value eclipses the mere visual. There's a lot for us to learn in that. Of course he did establish himself when he was younger and thinner, though I don't recall him ever being in great shape.

We should always be asking ourselves, how can we increase personal power and how can we project it?

If I were to describe jack in one word I would say "ruthless". Ruthlessness is a huge turn-on to women but like anything else it must be calibrated. Hence our constant dilemma. Wouldn't it be nice if we were able to paint on a face every day and attract the opposite sex just by virtue of a little putty and paint?

This is why it is man's righteous place to rule the world. Men FORGE themselves. Women paint themselves.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Atom Smasher said:
Which is another way to say it's all about perceived value. Jack is a fat, aging, and out of shape lump of flesh, but women willingly blind themselves to that fact because perceived value eclipses the mere visual. There's a lot for us to learn in that. Of course he did establish himself when he was younger and thinner, though I don't recall him ever being in great shape.
Yeah, he's never seemed like the gym rat type. My ex-wife used to like to watch Terms of Endearment. There's a scene in there where he takes his shirt off to have sex with Shirley Maclaine. My ex-wife would always laugh at his huge gut hanging out, but she was still clearly charmed by him. I think he was around 46 when he was in that.

It just goes go to show you don't have to be a slave to the gym to be popular with the ladies. Jack has never been the Greek god type, but he does have a distinctive face (presumably handsome) - very big smile, lots of capped teeth no doubt. But I think the secret to Nicholson's popularity is force of personality.
 
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