"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

Read more...

This is how it happens.

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
I went to a gathering the other night at a clients house, he invited me over for a going away party for one of his friends. Turns out his party was a bust and only 10 ppl showed up. We break out the vodka and jack and a few beers and go to town. One guy shows up with this smoking hot little thing. They both were wasted off their ass. I know him. He's a programmer. Nice guy, but he has a little game. He's been capitalizing on his new job and money to pull skanky hot chics who want to be saved. I'm not mad at him. Play on player.

At one point I have to got the bathroom and she's tying it up primping, so I say, 'move woman, I gotta go' and kick her out. She starts complaining loudly about how mean I am. I overhear the host tell them a story about how I saved his life a few weeks ago.

When I come back, she's giving me the eyes. She sits her ash tray between us and stares at me every time she goes to ash a cigarette. Her date gets up and goes out to answer the phone. She tells me how he's such a nice guy, and is way nicer than I am. And how she usually doesn't date guys like him, but she's getting older (26) and has two kids and needs a father for her children. I pretend to understand completely. Then she grabs my phone and calls her number. She makes off to the bathroom, her date comes back, and she texts me to meet her in the kitchen. I intentionally ignored her text.

Some time later I get up to get another drink, she follows me in the kitchen, all the while giving me the **** me eyes. She tells me I'm trouble and tries to hug and kiss me. I just turn my head and tell her to be good. The rest of the night I ignore her and she keeps texting me. When she hears that I'm an amateur photographer, she texts me pictures of her in bra and panties. I just ignore her. I'm only at the party to pay my client some respect and I end up leaving early as everyone was getting really wasted. After I leave she texts me, saying to call her sometime.

That is how it happens. ****y frame. Social Proof. Aloof *******ry. Hypergamy. Alcohol. Too bad she was only just hot. She was obviously a trainwreck not worth bringing into my life, nor worth hurting social and business connections for.

I ended up talking to the guy and telling him to watch out for that one, he said he knew what she was all about and he just wanted to pump and dump. I'm glad he's not being a chump.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

Read more...

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
like a boss.

I mean just how close of friends are you?

I mean, if you aren't like real friends and if there is no way you cna lose business over it, she's the perfect booty call; she has a white knight already she just wants some **** and to have fun.
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
backbreaker said:
like a boss.

I mean just how close of friends are you?

I mean, if you aren't like real friends and if there is no way you cna lose business over it, she's the perfect booty call; she has a white knight already she just wants some **** and to have fun.
Money over bytches.

The guy she was with, we used to be tight back in the day, which is why I gave him a heads up on that one. He used to be a big time captain save a ho, I hope he wised up.
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
Update. He texted me that he has been hitting that all weekend, and if she could just get off the x pills and drinking she could be okay. Dammit. He didn't learn a thing.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

Read more...

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
disgustipated said:
U gonna tell him?
Nope.

I already told him she was looking for a savior. If he walks into the trap after that, he's on his own. I didn't mention about her hitting on me, because to be honest, most times his friends end up banging his chics as his game is weak. I never have, but why bring it up? A word to the wise is sufficient.
 

Alvafe

Master Don Juan
Joined
Jun 26, 2012
Messages
3,360
Reaction score
1,594
Age
43
well if he is really your friend send the pics she sned your way to him, best way here is to burn the ***** down, he only wanted to bust his nut, tell him to hire a hooker or something, its cheaper that way....

edit: well I missed the new posts, so nvm
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,797
Reaction score
10,027
A couple of things jump out at me here:

1) Just "Move, woman, I gotta go" and she's all over you? That's it? That sounds exactly like something I would say, but I seldom get that kind of reaction. Grabbing your phone to get your number is a very aggressive action for a woman. Wow, life should be so easy.

I think the main element I'm missing is the alcohol. Since I've gotten older I don't much care to drink anymore, or even be around it really. There is a huge difference between a sober girl and a girl who has had a few drinks, as far as being ready to go. When I was younger, I was always stunned at how much alchohol acted as a liquid panty remover.

2) I have to agree with you and Sam that she's not worth your trouble. She sounds like the classic SoSuave stereotypical low quality woman that "@sshole game" seems to attract. She's looking for a "father for her children", but as soon as his back is turned, she's trying to fvck around. Lame.
 
Last edited:

Naughty Ninja

Banned
Joined
Apr 9, 2010
Messages
2,419
Reaction score
98
Location
Banned
Father for her kids? LMAO.

She means she wants to use her pvssy as a day care center pumped full of various mens 'children'.
 

"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

Read more...

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
zekko said:
A couple of things jump out at me here:

1) Just "Move, woman, I gotta go" and she's all over you? That's it? That sounds exactly like something I would say, but I seldom get that kind of reaction. Grabbing your phone to get your number is a very aggressive action for a woman. Wow, life should be so easy.

I think the main element I'm missing is the alcohol. Since I've gotten older I don't much care to drink anymore, or even be around it really. There is a huge difference between a sober girl and a girl who has had a few drinks, as far as being ready to go. When I was younger, I was always stunned at how much alchohol acted as a liquid panty remove.

2) I have to agree with you and Sam that she's not worth your trouble. She sounds like the classic SoSuave stereotypical low quality woman that "@sshole game" seems to attract. She's looking for a "father for her children", but as soon as his back is turned, she's trying to fvck around. Lame.
Yah. I was surprised too. I guess she was choosing early and the alcohol just let it all out. Not worth the trouble at all. Oh and when I said kicked her out. I picked her up and put her out. She was like 110lbs or so. It was in a playful sort of way.
 

AAAgent

Master Don Juan
Joined
Dec 10, 2008
Messages
2,640
Reaction score
317
Honestly, I would have played it this way too but i only act ****y to b1tches. Otherwise, i'm a pretty nice gentleman but if you do some b1tchy stuff, don't expect me to be nice to you.

The only b1tchy ones i meet are either really hot or fat and i've dated them both just by reciprocating their attitude back at them and then ignoring their constant attempts of attention wh0ring.
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
Update. She wanted to come to the studio to take photos. She asked me if I could get her some "fun stuff" other than alcohol. Apparently my friend is getting her prescription drugs. What a catch eh? I passed on the photos and the "fun stuff". Haven't heard from her since.
 

zekko

Master Don Juan
Joined
Aug 6, 2009
Messages
16,797
Reaction score
10,027
Warrior74 said:
Update. She wanted to come to the studio to take photos. She asked me if I could get her some "fun stuff" other than alcohol. Apparently my friend is getting her prescription drugs. What a catch eh? I passed on the photos and the "fun stuff". Haven't heard from her since.
That's why many posters have said one way to score is to have plenty of "fun stuff".
 

backbreaker

Master Don Juan
Joined
Apr 24, 2002
Messages
11,546
Reaction score
572
Location
monrovia, CA
zekko said:
That's why many posters have said one way to score is to have plenty of "fun stuff".
rotfl this reminds me of a story back in my drug days, we were at a house and there were these 2 out of the ordinarily hot girls in the trap house. very easily 8's. anyway we were doing our thing and there was another dude there. long story short we all decide to go some where more prviate so we could party together. so we gave him the task of going to get some "refereshments" (wink wink of course i.e more dope)


rotfl this motherfvcker came back with like pops and sodas and **** i wanted to cry laughing. i'm like you stupid dip **** WTF are we going to do with this. lol we are smoking crack i can't drink this **** if i wanted to
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

Read more...

Burroughs

Master Don Juan
Joined
Feb 28, 2011
Messages
2,171
Reaction score
99
well played warrior

i know too many x'ed out chicks....down for whatever whenever....you could p!ss on these bishes and they'd love it....but with 2 kids AND doing that sh!t damn!
 

Warrior74

Master Don Juan
Joined
Mar 25, 2008
Messages
5,106
Reaction score
230
zekko said:
That's why many posters have said one way to score is to have plenty of "fun stuff".

Oh it works. I used to be a DJ/promoter and we had a guy in our crew who would hook everyone up. Of course our shows were packed out and we always had tons of girls around. But after I became I a father I walked away from that lifestyle. Been clean for 11 years (besides the occasional joint on new years or my birthday). I know those types of girls all to well and I know the drama and headaches they bring and how once you feed their beast you are just opening the doors. I got too much to lose now to go back down that road again. Especially to lose it over some skank? Hell no!
 
Top