Its sort of a calm. Emotionless. I don't care anymore. I don't need to impress. My target is my career. I just want to get more money and live a good life with things money can buy. All about money now. As for women i don't care no more. I don't need game, i don't care what i say, what i don't say. I say what i want to say when i want to say, I don't care if its DJish, arrogant, ****y or afc. I don't care about my gf no more... If she wants to stick around she will, if not than i don't want to be with a person who doesn't want to be with me. this is my **** test. **** it, the way she behaves the way i treat her, she got to earn me. She gonna focus on herself leave me out, i'm out. I need a women who focus on me. No pain. Maybe i'm selfish, i can't help it.
"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is how i feel right now
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"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"
I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.
The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.
Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.
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Yup, it is selfish to demand something from someone that you're not prepared to do yourself. Furthermore, you really *don't* want a girl like that. As much as we talk about guys being clingy, girls are just as capable of doing the same. I was with a girl that totally focused on me. It killed all attraction and became extremely annoying. She had no value to give.
You each need to do your own thing and then have your moments for each other.
You each need to do your own thing and then have your moments for each other.
No i didn't break up wit her. I just changed. i want a women who is there for me. All that matter is what i want.
i focus on myself now, b4 i used to thing what is romantic. how should i up my game.
I don't need game.
I live everyday not for ME. I make the best i can out of it for me. I don't need a my ***** for that.
i focus on myself now, b4 i used to thing what is romantic. how should i up my game.
I don't need game.
I live everyday not for ME. I make the best i can out of it for me. I don't need a my ***** for that.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Slick101 said:SooO you broke up with your GF that you fell in love with... and this is your post...
i get it
And yes i did love her, still do. But i only want her if she loves me. i don't need a women who doesn't have the same feelings for me.
I'm have no interest in ****ing women who i don't have feelings for. i'm past that.
And you reason for this post is....
because If you look at what girls are saying ... they are saying the same thing, almost in the same words....
You sound like a BEATCH....
Be a Man.... Go Out der and have sum fun... you look emotionally desperate right now in an Indirect way.... stop worrying about your bull**** and focus On positve things....
because If you look at what girls are saying ... they are saying the same thing, almost in the same words....
You sound like a BEATCH....
Be a Man.... Go Out der and have sum fun... you look emotionally desperate right now in an Indirect way.... stop worrying about your bull**** and focus On positve things....
Slick101 said:And you reason for this post is....
because If you look at what girls are saying ... they are saying the same thing, almost in the same words....
You sound like a BEATCH....
Be a Man.... Go Out der and have sum fun... you look emotionally desperate right now in an Indirect way.... stop worrying about your bull**** and focus On positve things....
I am what i am. Bro listen, i want to have an emotional relationship with a women. I can't be with a women that i don't love. even tho that is AFC.
But i don't need that to make me happy. If it ain't there it ain't there, can't have something thats not there.
I do focus on positive things. My career. all about money now.
GOOD...
so stop worrying about her.... You may not agree with me but alot of my friends had same problems....
They still love the girll... and agree about moving into bigger things and then they act depressed.... You are what you are... Your a Human Being...
Want to be successful... money is not going to make you happy as well...
Forget the girl... make the money... after sum time youll realize that your still lonely and you need someone in your life...
Go pick up some woman.... Im not saying fvck em... Im saying find one that is smart and caring... have a LTR or w/e the F.. You want....
so stop worrying about her.... You may not agree with me but alot of my friends had same problems....
They still love the girll... and agree about moving into bigger things and then they act depressed.... You are what you are... Your a Human Being...
Want to be successful... money is not going to make you happy as well...
Forget the girl... make the money... after sum time youll realize that your still lonely and you need someone in your life...
Go pick up some woman.... Im not saying fvck em... Im saying find one that is smart and caring... have a LTR or w/e the F.. You want....
Having a condo and driving a BMW will make me happy.Slick101 said:GOOD...
so stop worrying about her.... You may not agree with me but alot of my friends had same problems....
They still love the girll... and agree about moving into bigger things and then they act depressed.... You are what you are... Your a Human Being...
Want to be successful... money is not going to make you happy as well...
Forget the girl... make the money... after sum time youll realize that your still lonely and you need someone in your life...
Go pick up some woman.... Im not saying fvck em... Im saying find one that is smart and caring... have a LTR or w/e the F.. You want....
See i don't have problem getting women and just ****ing them. But thats not what i want.
I am in LTR right now. And i am not going to bring up the entire story but she did something that hurt me, i admit it.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
explain?sav said:in the process of being this self absorbed, dont lose your identity..
KnockoutJM
Don Juan
Hes saying, dont throw away your ideals just to make money.
Money isn't the main focus of life, you have to enjoy your life as you make money. Just stay true to your values
Money isn't the main focus of life, you have to enjoy your life as you make money. Just stay true to your values
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
dont spend a lifetime making money, only to realize it isnt really worth it. Didnt the ghost of christmas past teach you anything???
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.