Its sort of a calm. Emotionless. I don't care anymore. I don't need to impress. My target is my career. I just want to get more money and live a good life with things money can buy. All about money now. As for women i don't care no more. I don't need game, i don't care what i say, what i don't say. I say what i want to say when i want to say, I don't care if its DJish, arrogant, ****y or afc. I don't care about my gf no more... If she wants to stick around she will, if not than i don't want to be with a person who doesn't want to be with me. this is my **** test. **** it, the way she behaves the way i treat her, she got to earn me. She gonna focus on herself leave me out, i'm out. I need a women who focus on me. No pain. Maybe i'm selfish, i can't help it.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
This is how i feel right now
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"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"
Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
benjiprice
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Yup, it is selfish to demand something from someone that you're not prepared to do yourself. Furthermore, you really *don't* want a girl like that. As much as we talk about guys being clingy, girls are just as capable of doing the same. I was with a girl that totally focused on me. It killed all attraction and became extremely annoying. She had no value to give.
You each need to do your own thing and then have your moments for each other.
You each need to do your own thing and then have your moments for each other.
No i didn't break up wit her. I just changed. i want a women who is there for me. All that matter is what i want.
i focus on myself now, b4 i used to thing what is romantic. how should i up my game.
I don't need game.
I live everyday not for ME. I make the best i can out of it for me. I don't need a my ***** for that.
i focus on myself now, b4 i used to thing what is romantic. how should i up my game.
I don't need game.
I live everyday not for ME. I make the best i can out of it for me. I don't need a my ***** for that.
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Slick101 said:SooO you broke up with your GF that you fell in love with... and this is your post...
i get it
And yes i did love her, still do. But i only want her if she loves me. i don't need a women who doesn't have the same feelings for me.
I'm have no interest in ****ing women who i don't have feelings for. i'm past that.
And you reason for this post is....
because If you look at what girls are saying ... they are saying the same thing, almost in the same words....
You sound like a BEATCH....
Be a Man.... Go Out der and have sum fun... you look emotionally desperate right now in an Indirect way.... stop worrying about your bull**** and focus On positve things....
because If you look at what girls are saying ... they are saying the same thing, almost in the same words....
You sound like a BEATCH....
Be a Man.... Go Out der and have sum fun... you look emotionally desperate right now in an Indirect way.... stop worrying about your bull**** and focus On positve things....
Slick101 said:And you reason for this post is....
because If you look at what girls are saying ... they are saying the same thing, almost in the same words....
You sound like a BEATCH....
Be a Man.... Go Out der and have sum fun... you look emotionally desperate right now in an Indirect way.... stop worrying about your bull**** and focus On positve things....
I am what i am. Bro listen, i want to have an emotional relationship with a women. I can't be with a women that i don't love. even tho that is AFC.
But i don't need that to make me happy. If it ain't there it ain't there, can't have something thats not there.
I do focus on positive things. My career. all about money now.
GOOD...
so stop worrying about her.... You may not agree with me but alot of my friends had same problems....
They still love the girll... and agree about moving into bigger things and then they act depressed.... You are what you are... Your a Human Being...
Want to be successful... money is not going to make you happy as well...
Forget the girl... make the money... after sum time youll realize that your still lonely and you need someone in your life...
Go pick up some woman.... Im not saying fvck em... Im saying find one that is smart and caring... have a LTR or w/e the F.. You want....
so stop worrying about her.... You may not agree with me but alot of my friends had same problems....
They still love the girll... and agree about moving into bigger things and then they act depressed.... You are what you are... Your a Human Being...
Want to be successful... money is not going to make you happy as well...
Forget the girl... make the money... after sum time youll realize that your still lonely and you need someone in your life...
Go pick up some woman.... Im not saying fvck em... Im saying find one that is smart and caring... have a LTR or w/e the F.. You want....
Having a condo and driving a BMW will make me happy.Slick101 said:GOOD...
so stop worrying about her.... You may not agree with me but alot of my friends had same problems....
They still love the girll... and agree about moving into bigger things and then they act depressed.... You are what you are... Your a Human Being...
Want to be successful... money is not going to make you happy as well...
Forget the girl... make the money... after sum time youll realize that your still lonely and you need someone in your life...
Go pick up some woman.... Im not saying fvck em... Im saying find one that is smart and caring... have a LTR or w/e the F.. You want....
See i don't have problem getting women and just ****ing them. But thats not what i want.
I am in LTR right now. And i am not going to bring up the entire story but she did something that hurt me, i admit it.
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
explain?sav said:in the process of being this self absorbed, dont lose your identity..
KnockoutJM
Don Juan
Hes saying, dont throw away your ideals just to make money.
Money isn't the main focus of life, you have to enjoy your life as you make money. Just stay true to your values
Money isn't the main focus of life, you have to enjoy your life as you make money. Just stay true to your values
Microphone Fiend
Master Don Juan
dont spend a lifetime making money, only to realize it isnt really worth it. Didnt the ghost of christmas past teach you anything???
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.