"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This is how I categorise people from the natural to the player to the afc

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I think this post will help some people a little so her it is:



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------THE NATURAL CHARISMATIC Normal mood: happy

( he is himself and has high confidence and is happy with that and he attracts all kinds of people, and even though he is cool he will let you now if you don`t respect him )


---------THE NATURAL Normal mood: normal/happy

( he is himself and has high confidence and is happy with that and even though he is cool he will let you now if you don`t respect him )


---------THE PLAYER ( has high confidence and use every trick he can to get girls from books etc )
Normal mood: normal

---------THE IDIOT- (has high confidence and is the one who treat girls like ****)
Normal mood: ?

---------THE SUPER IDIOT- (has high confidence and is the one who treats everybody like ****)
Normal mood: ?

---------THE CHARISMATIC AFC (has low confidence and attracts all kinds of people everywhere even though he is an AFC, but people don`t respect/fear him because he is nice to everyone and because of that some idiots are judging him )

Normal mood: happy ( charismatic people smiles even though they had a hard day and the smile can likely be a little fake)


---------THE AFC has low confidence and is The geek like person who do not say much and people don`t respect/fear him because he is nice to everyone and because of that some idiots are judging him )

Normal mood: below normal


---------THE NORMAL MAN AFC ( has normal confidence and is a person who is one of the crowd who nobody notice) Normal mood: normal



You can also take in how much they talk.



Any comments fellow DJ friends ? :crackup:
 
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I think some of you hate this thread because it can be an eye opener for some of you ............ LOL
 
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kingman said:
I think this post will help some people a little so her it is:



:D


------THE NATURAL CHARISMATIC Normal mood: happy

( he is himself and has high confidence and is happy with that and he attracts all kinds of people, and even though he is cool he will let you now if you don`t respect him )


---------THE NATURAL Normal mood: normal/happy

( he is himself and has high confidence and is happy with that and even though he is cool he will let you now if you don`t respect him )


---------THE PLAYER ( has high confidence and use every trick he can to get girls from books etc )
Normal mood: normal

---------THE IDIOT- (has high confidence and is the one who treat girls like ****)
Normal mood: ?

---------THE SUPER IDIOT- (has high confidence and is the one who treats everybody like ****)
Normal mood: ?

---------THE CHARISMATIC AFC (has low confidence and attracts all kinds of people everywhere even though he is an AFC, but people don`t respect/fear him because he is nice to everyone and because of that some idiots are judging him )

Normal mood: happy ( charismatic people smiles even though they had a hard day and the smile can likely be a little fake)


---------THE AFC has low confidence and is The geek like person who do not say much and people don`t respect/fear him because he is nice to everyone and because of that some idiots are judging him )

Normal mood: below normal


---------THE NORMAL MAN AFC ( has normal confidence and is a person who is one of the crowd who nobody notice) Normal mood: normal



You can also take in how much they talk.



Any comments fellow DJ friends ? :crackup:
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Yo Kingman.... Aren't there moods other than just normal, happy & below normal? :D
 

“The 22 Rules That Turned Me From Invisible to Irresistible With Women… Starting Tonight”

You can skip the expensive cars, the fancy clothes, and the endless gym selfies. Completely unnecessary.

I used to freeze the second a beautiful woman looked my way. Frustrated. Awkward. Watching other guys walk away with the girl while I stood there tongue-tied.

Then I discovered 22 simple rules that rewired my entire dating life. The anxiety vanished. Conversations flowed effortlessly. Women started chasing me for a change.

These rules trigger a woman's subconscious attraction switches. And you can start using them tonight.

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Wow...want a comment ?

Okay. List one way where this...uhm..."study" is useful
 
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What exactly is a "normal" mood? Where did you come up with this categories? The normal man afc vs the afc?? This isnt an eye opener for anyone.
 
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Man... seems to me like you've REALY been "getting high on life"
 
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oakraiderz2 said:
What exactly is a "normal" mood? Where did you come up with this categories? The normal man afc vs the afc?? This isnt an eye opener for anyone.
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The post is all mine . You will not find it anywhere else.. It will maybe help people who think they have to learn a lot of tricks to get woman. It is all about confidence, not tricks.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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And those people who attracts most girls are the charismatic one.
 
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kingman said:
The post is all mine . You will not find it anywhere else.. It will maybe help people who think they have to learn a lot of tricks to get woman. It is all about confidence, not tricks.
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Dude, im guessin english isnt your first language so yea, but i dont know what you said. Your post could use A LOT of work. Trying to catergorize people is a tricky task to accomplish and honestly, you didnt do a very good job. Please go back to my previous post and tell me the differences between the pseudo categorizations you made, thanks pumpkin.
 
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My categorizing are very correct. But the only thing I could have done better is to explain more in detail.

The thing with normal mood and so on is that most of those type of people is in that mood, not everyone.
 
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bull**** unsupported by marketing & hypnosis gimmicks doesn't pass; pick up a business or marketing book and copy-paste some techniques from it

Didn't answer my question einistien; we categorize people (and ourselves)

Then what...?
 
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