"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is how I categorise people from the natural to the player to the afc

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I think this post will help some people a little so her it is:



:D


------THE NATURAL CHARISMATIC Normal mood: happy

( he is himself and has high confidence and is happy with that and he attracts all kinds of people, and even though he is cool he will let you now if you don`t respect him )


---------THE NATURAL Normal mood: normal/happy

( he is himself and has high confidence and is happy with that and even though he is cool he will let you now if you don`t respect him )


---------THE PLAYER ( has high confidence and use every trick he can to get girls from books etc )
Normal mood: normal

---------THE IDIOT- (has high confidence and is the one who treat girls like ****)
Normal mood: ?

---------THE SUPER IDIOT- (has high confidence and is the one who treats everybody like ****)
Normal mood: ?

---------THE CHARISMATIC AFC (has low confidence and attracts all kinds of people everywhere even though he is an AFC, but people don`t respect/fear him because he is nice to everyone and because of that some idiots are judging him )

Normal mood: happy ( charismatic people smiles even though they had a hard day and the smile can likely be a little fake)


---------THE AFC has low confidence and is The geek like person who do not say much and people don`t respect/fear him because he is nice to everyone and because of that some idiots are judging him )

Normal mood: below normal


---------THE NORMAL MAN AFC ( has normal confidence and is a person who is one of the crowd who nobody notice) Normal mood: normal



You can also take in how much they talk.



Any comments fellow DJ friends ? :crackup:
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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I think some of you hate this thread because it can be an eye opener for some of you ............ LOL
 

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kingman said:
I think this post will help some people a little so her it is:



:D


------THE NATURAL CHARISMATIC Normal mood: happy

( he is himself and has high confidence and is happy with that and he attracts all kinds of people, and even though he is cool he will let you now if you don`t respect him )


---------THE NATURAL Normal mood: normal/happy

( he is himself and has high confidence and is happy with that and even though he is cool he will let you now if you don`t respect him )


---------THE PLAYER ( has high confidence and use every trick he can to get girls from books etc )
Normal mood: normal

---------THE IDIOT- (has high confidence and is the one who treat girls like ****)
Normal mood: ?

---------THE SUPER IDIOT- (has high confidence and is the one who treats everybody like ****)
Normal mood: ?

---------THE CHARISMATIC AFC (has low confidence and attracts all kinds of people everywhere even though he is an AFC, but people don`t respect/fear him because he is nice to everyone and because of that some idiots are judging him )

Normal mood: happy ( charismatic people smiles even though they had a hard day and the smile can likely be a little fake)


---------THE AFC has low confidence and is The geek like person who do not say much and people don`t respect/fear him because he is nice to everyone and because of that some idiots are judging him )

Normal mood: below normal


---------THE NORMAL MAN AFC ( has normal confidence and is a person who is one of the crowd who nobody notice) Normal mood: normal



You can also take in how much they talk.



Any comments fellow DJ friends ? :crackup:
Yo Kingman.... Aren't there moods other than just normal, happy & below normal? :D
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Wow...want a comment ?

Okay. List one way where this...uhm..."study" is useful
 

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What exactly is a "normal" mood? Where did you come up with this categories? The normal man afc vs the afc?? This isnt an eye opener for anyone.
 

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Man... seems to me like you've REALY been "getting high on life"
 

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oakraiderz2 said:
What exactly is a "normal" mood? Where did you come up with this categories? The normal man afc vs the afc?? This isnt an eye opener for anyone.

The post is all mine . You will not find it anywhere else.. It will maybe help people who think they have to learn a lot of tricks to get woman. It is all about confidence, not tricks.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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And those people who attracts most girls are the charismatic one.
 

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kingman said:
The post is all mine . You will not find it anywhere else.. It will maybe help people who think they have to learn a lot of tricks to get woman. It is all about confidence, not tricks.
Dude, im guessin english isnt your first language so yea, but i dont know what you said. Your post could use A LOT of work. Trying to catergorize people is a tricky task to accomplish and honestly, you didnt do a very good job. Please go back to my previous post and tell me the differences between the pseudo categorizations you made, thanks pumpkin.
 

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My categorizing are very correct. But the only thing I could have done better is to explain more in detail.

The thing with normal mood and so on is that most of those type of people is in that mood, not everyone.
 
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bull**** unsupported by marketing & hypnosis gimmicks doesn't pass; pick up a business or marketing book and copy-paste some techniques from it

Didn't answer my question einistien; we categorize people (and ourselves)

Then what...?
 
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