"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This is going to sound insanely stupid... but..

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Alright, so I'm 17 and working dishroom at a restaurant (first job, bottom of the totem pole), and I enjoy the place because its just a flirty environment.. but whenever the server girls come in and give me dishes, we usually talk for a few minutes before they have to go back out to their table... but I did a running tally on this today: every time the girl would leave (for four different girls I talked with) as they walked away, they would reach behind their back and tug down their shirt. Now I'm not all like "ZOMG TOTAL SECRET GIRL KINO SIGN FOR BUTTSECKZ", but I'm just curious, is it a habit that girls have like tossing their hair or biting their nails? Or do they just think my eyes will be glued to her ass immediately as soon as she turns around?

My question is, can I take this as a positive sign, a negative sign, or a nothing sign?
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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They think you're trying to check out their back-fat. :p

Usually most guys say "don't get laid where you get paid", but you're too young to give a shit about your little job. Just wait for some real signs of interest then make your move.
 
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Don't they know the tiny shirts they wear won't even cover the top of their jeans :rolleyes:
 
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Brighty said:
Don't they know the tiny shirts they wear won't even cover the top of their jeans :rolleyes:
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I reckon that's just what they want ;) (fortunately in most cases...)
Is it a IOI? Don't think so. Girls do it all the time, whether they're your girlfriend, a date or just a passer-by.

Saludos
Grizou
 
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all young chicks do that, I've noticed it myself and it really cracks me up, they go out and get these low cut pants, then they get these high cut shirts and constantly do that. I was waiting for a appointment, I was early and was watching this chick load up this truck, see couldn't even see me watching her and she was constantly doing that everytime she loaded the truck, she would turn around pull down her shirt and go get more boxes, load them in truck, turn around and tug on shirt and head back for more boxes, I heckle girls that do that, I ask them if its bothering them so much, why don't you get a longer shirt?, this really puts them on the spot because they really have no answer, they just follow the other chicks doing it. counter them, everytime you see them pulling down their shirt, grab your crotch. eventually they will see what they are doing is really goofy.......lol
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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