"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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This is going to sound insanely stupid... but..

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Alright, so I'm 17 and working dishroom at a restaurant (first job, bottom of the totem pole), and I enjoy the place because its just a flirty environment.. but whenever the server girls come in and give me dishes, we usually talk for a few minutes before they have to go back out to their table... but I did a running tally on this today: every time the girl would leave (for four different girls I talked with) as they walked away, they would reach behind their back and tug down their shirt. Now I'm not all like "ZOMG TOTAL SECRET GIRL KINO SIGN FOR BUTTSECKZ", but I'm just curious, is it a habit that girls have like tossing their hair or biting their nails? Or do they just think my eyes will be glued to her ass immediately as soon as she turns around?

My question is, can I take this as a positive sign, a negative sign, or a nothing sign?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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They think you're trying to check out their back-fat. :p

Usually most guys say "don't get laid where you get paid", but you're too young to give a shit about your little job. Just wait for some real signs of interest then make your move.
 

Brighty

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Don't they know the tiny shirts they wear won't even cover the top of their jeans :rolleyes:
 

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Brighty said:
Don't they know the tiny shirts they wear won't even cover the top of their jeans :rolleyes:
I reckon that's just what they want ;) (fortunately in most cases...)
Is it a IOI? Don't think so. Girls do it all the time, whether they're your girlfriend, a date or just a passer-by.

Saludos
Grizou
 

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all young chicks do that, I've noticed it myself and it really cracks me up, they go out and get these low cut pants, then they get these high cut shirts and constantly do that. I was waiting for a appointment, I was early and was watching this chick load up this truck, see couldn't even see me watching her and she was constantly doing that everytime she loaded the truck, she would turn around pull down her shirt and go get more boxes, load them in truck, turn around and tug on shirt and head back for more boxes, I heckle girls that do that, I ask them if its bothering them so much, why don't you get a longer shirt?, this really puts them on the spot because they really have no answer, they just follow the other chicks doing it. counter them, everytime you see them pulling down their shirt, grab your crotch. eventually they will see what they are doing is really goofy.......lol
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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