"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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PuertoRicanGuitars

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One of the biggest things I feel self conscious about is dancing. I just feel so stupid doing it. I can't force myself and say "loosen up!". I'm in high school and looking for a job so classes are out of the question for the time being. Dancers of sosuave how did learn how to dance?
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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PuertoRicanGuitars said:
One of the biggest things I feel self conscious about is dancing. I just feel so stupid doing it. I can't force myself and say "loosen up!". I'm in high school and looking for a job so classes are out of the question for the time being. Dancers of sosuave how did learn how to dance?
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Can you Salsa - just basic steps?
Your screen name suggests that you are a Latina?

The only way to learn to dance properly, for small $$, is in group class.

Unfortunately there are a lot of guys called Enrico or Jose who stepped off the boat and decided that stupid gringos will pay good money to learn crap latin dance.
Go to a QUALIFIED teacher if you go at all.
 
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jophil28 said:
Can you Salsa - just basic steps?
Your screen name suggests that you are a Latina?

The only way to learn to dance properly, for small $$, is in group class.

Unfortunately there are a lot of guys called Enrico or Jose who stepped off the boat and decided that stupid gringos will pay good money to learn crap latin dance.
Go to a QUALIFIED teacher if you go at all.
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Err I'm male so latino
No not even basic steps. Non in my family dances and I'm far away from other relatives who might know.:down: How do I know if they are qualified?
 
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