“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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One of the biggest things I feel self conscious about is dancing. I just feel so stupid doing it. I can't force myself and say "loosen up!". I'm in high school and looking for a job so classes are out of the question for the time being. Dancers of sosuave how did learn how to dance?
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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PuertoRicanGuitars said:
One of the biggest things I feel self conscious about is dancing. I just feel so stupid doing it. I can't force myself and say "loosen up!". I'm in high school and looking for a job so classes are out of the question for the time being. Dancers of sosuave how did learn how to dance?
Can you Salsa - just basic steps?
Your screen name suggests that you are a Latina?

The only way to learn to dance properly, for small $$, is in group class.

Unfortunately there are a lot of guys called Enrico or Jose who stepped off the boat and decided that stupid gringos will pay good money to learn crap latin dance.
Go to a QUALIFIED teacher if you go at all.
 
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jophil28 said:
Can you Salsa - just basic steps?
Your screen name suggests that you are a Latina?

The only way to learn to dance properly, for small $$, is in group class.

Unfortunately there are a lot of guys called Enrico or Jose who stepped off the boat and decided that stupid gringos will pay good money to learn crap latin dance.
Go to a QUALIFIED teacher if you go at all.
Err I'm male so latino
No not even basic steps. Non in my family dances and I'm far away from other relatives who might know.:down: How do I know if they are qualified?
 
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