"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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One of the biggest things I feel self conscious about is dancing. I just feel so stupid doing it. I can't force myself and say "loosen up!". I'm in high school and looking for a job so classes are out of the question for the time being. Dancers of sosuave how did learn how to dance?
 

"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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PuertoRicanGuitars said:
One of the biggest things I feel self conscious about is dancing. I just feel so stupid doing it. I can't force myself and say "loosen up!". I'm in high school and looking for a job so classes are out of the question for the time being. Dancers of sosuave how did learn how to dance?
Can you Salsa - just basic steps?
Your screen name suggests that you are a Latina?

The only way to learn to dance properly, for small $$, is in group class.

Unfortunately there are a lot of guys called Enrico or Jose who stepped off the boat and decided that stupid gringos will pay good money to learn crap latin dance.
Go to a QUALIFIED teacher if you go at all.
 
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jophil28 said:
Can you Salsa - just basic steps?
Your screen name suggests that you are a Latina?

The only way to learn to dance properly, for small $$, is in group class.

Unfortunately there are a lot of guys called Enrico or Jose who stepped off the boat and decided that stupid gringos will pay good money to learn crap latin dance.
Go to a QUALIFIED teacher if you go at all.
Err I'm male so latino
No not even basic steps. Non in my family dances and I'm far away from other relatives who might know.:down: How do I know if they are qualified?
 
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