judoguy
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"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"
You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.
Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.
Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.
Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.
This is by far the worst AFC I have ever seen :(You tube) wedding proposal age 18
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.
judoguy
Don Juan
she said no, btw.
dating for less than a year
dating for less than a year
judoguy
Don Juan
goes to uni w/ me.....got the vid and story from a friend
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Prodigy746
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wat??? it says he will show it May 23...judoguy said:
Hey everyone, so i've been with my girlfriend for a very long time now, and, for about four months I was looking for a way to truly show her what it was to be in love with her. Fortunately, I decided to make a Windows Movie Maker(c) video with the background of one of our songs, "Don't Change" by Musiq Soulchild! It's comprised of a large array of photos of her and I! PLEASE leave comments about it!!! I am showing it to her next friday(23 MAY)!!! Leave feedback everyone!!!!
Ken785
Master Don Juan
LOL...thats the worst! to propose and have the ***** say no! I think the song was good though, who was that by? Musiq?judoguy said:
"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"
When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.
Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.
Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.
The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.