judoguy
Don Juan
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"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This is by far the worst AFC I have ever seen :(You tube) wedding proposal age 18
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
judoguy
Don Juan
she said no, btw.
dating for less than a year
dating for less than a year
judoguy
Don Juan
goes to uni w/ me.....got the vid and story from a friend
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Prodigy746
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wat??? it says he will show it May 23...judoguy said:
Hey everyone, so i've been with my girlfriend for a very long time now, and, for about four months I was looking for a way to truly show her what it was to be in love with her. Fortunately, I decided to make a Windows Movie Maker(c) video with the background of one of our songs, "Don't Change" by Musiq Soulchild! It's comprised of a large array of photos of her and I! PLEASE leave comments about it!!! I am showing it to her next friday(23 MAY)!!! Leave feedback everyone!!!!
Ken785
Master Don Juan
LOL...thats the worst! to propose and have the ***** say no! I think the song was good though, who was that by? Musiq?judoguy said:
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.