"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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FunnyMan

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Ive been somewhat part of the community for a year or so now as I have been trying to improve my life at the same time. So I met this HB7 the other day and she seemed to have interest so I talked to her a little bit and tried to get her # to further interaction


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me : whats ur cell

her : HAHAHA. this guy.....you have to earn that **** :) Hhahahaha

me : oh **** you seemed so easy before, this is gona be fun, do you like long walks on the beach?

her : not with you hahaha


I really havnt run into this situation before, and was wondering what you guys do when girls are like this
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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SickAgain

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well it sounds like you messed up, but as long as she's laughing you can always try to salvage. i don't know why you called her easy. usually when i ask for a number regardless of their answer i will hand them my phone. then they're more obligated to give it to me. maybe next time you can give her a reason why she should give you her number. its all situational.
 

FunnyMan

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hrmm I felt like trying to prove myself to get her number would have been a very bad thing
 

SickAgain

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lol i don't think she meant you had to literally earn the number. it's just a playful euphemism. i would've said something like "well let me borrow it to see if i like it". anyways never call her easy, no matter how slutty a girl may be, she doesn't want to feel it.
 
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