"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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This is a strange one

FunnyMan

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Ive been somewhat part of the community for a year or so now as I have been trying to improve my life at the same time. So I met this HB7 the other day and she seemed to have interest so I talked to her a little bit and tried to get her # to further interaction


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me : whats ur cell

her : HAHAHA. this guy.....you have to earn that **** :) Hhahahaha

me : oh **** you seemed so easy before, this is gona be fun, do you like long walks on the beach?

her : not with you hahaha


I really havnt run into this situation before, and was wondering what you guys do when girls are like this
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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SickAgain

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well it sounds like you messed up, but as long as she's laughing you can always try to salvage. i don't know why you called her easy. usually when i ask for a number regardless of their answer i will hand them my phone. then they're more obligated to give it to me. maybe next time you can give her a reason why she should give you her number. its all situational.
 

FunnyMan

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hrmm I felt like trying to prove myself to get her number would have been a very bad thing
 

SickAgain

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lol i don't think she meant you had to literally earn the number. it's just a playful euphemism. i would've said something like "well let me borrow it to see if i like it". anyways never call her easy, no matter how slutty a girl may be, she doesn't want to feel it.
 
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