"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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FunnyMan

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Ive been somewhat part of the community for a year or so now as I have been trying to improve my life at the same time. So I met this HB7 the other day and she seemed to have interest so I talked to her a little bit and tried to get her # to further interaction


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me : whats ur cell

her : HAHAHA. this guy.....you have to earn that **** :) Hhahahaha

me : oh **** you seemed so easy before, this is gona be fun, do you like long walks on the beach?

her : not with you hahaha


I really havnt run into this situation before, and was wondering what you guys do when girls are like this
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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well it sounds like you messed up, but as long as she's laughing you can always try to salvage. i don't know why you called her easy. usually when i ask for a number regardless of their answer i will hand them my phone. then they're more obligated to give it to me. maybe next time you can give her a reason why she should give you her number. its all situational.
 
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FunnyMan

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hrmm I felt like trying to prove myself to get her number would have been a very bad thing
 
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SickAgain

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lol i don't think she meant you had to literally earn the number. it's just a playful euphemism. i would've said something like "well let me borrow it to see if i like it". anyways never call her easy, no matter how slutty a girl may be, she doesn't want to feel it.
 
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