"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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this is a pile of crap

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This is starting to annoy me! and especially so that all of you guys only respect certain members on this forum!! i would like to make it clear that just because you know some good theory, it doesnt mean that you are a good DJ! i am CERTAIN that some of the best 'real life' DJ's on this forum arent respcted as much as the likes of pook just beacuse they havent got any new innovative ideas or are posting countless threads mainly because THEY DONT HAVE A LIFE!

it is my guess that some of the guys on this forum who are well respected are actually complete nerds in real life! i am one of the best DJ's on this forum. DEAL WITH IT:cheer:
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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i am one of the best DJ's on this forum
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Not with an outburst like that you aren't. Crying out for validation will only get you flamed by other members.

The best pick-up artist? maybe (but I doubt it). The best DJ? No.
 
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This is starting to annoy me! and especially so that all of you guys only respect certain members on this forum!!

Look at the abundance of post recently. Most are from people who have joined this year. Don't get me wrong,Im all for hearing from newer members but please consider what you are posting before you post it.

i would like to make it clear that just because you know some good theory, it doesnt mean that you are a good DJ!

It all depends on what your definition of a "good DJ" is. To each their own.

i am CERTAIN that some of the best 'real life' DJ's on this forum arent respcted as much as the likes of pook just beacuse they havent got any new innovative ideas or are posting countless threads mainly because THEY DONT HAVE A LIFE!

Do you ever consider that some of us are on the forum at work,school etc. passing time?

it is my guess that some of the guys on this forum who are well respected are actually complete nerds in real life!

Who said "nerds" can't pull women? Labeling someone a "nerd" is childish,alot of "nerds" that I know have decent loking girlfriends.
 
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Well stated blinkwatt. hot stuff, you may think you're hot stuff, but just coming out and saying that kinda stuff shows that there's got to be some kind of insecurity inside you. A real DJ, at least in my opinion, know's he's The Man, but he doesn't have to tell anyone. He just feels it from within. In this forum, it's not about who's the best DJ, or who knows the most. It's about bettering yourself, and making yourself into a better DJ. We all have the general idea of what a DJ is, but it's up to us to define him. For us to aquire the traits we think we need. The traits that will better help us become a DJ. It's about sharing our knowledge with everyone else, in order to help them better themselves. I've been here a long time and I've learned a lot, and seen a lot and experienced a lot, but i'm not any better than the rest. I'm here still trying to learn and help other learn. Being a DJ isn't just about bettering yourself. Being a DJ is about bettering yourself and helping others better themselves.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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Not with an outburst like that you aren't. Crying out for validation will only get you flamed by other members.

im not crying out for validation at all im simply making a point that some of the best DJ's on this forum are not being recognised.....though i do understand the concept before i get flamed again that there is no 'best DJ' as one should just seek for hapiness!!

BTW i am also not insecure....i ofcourse am not perfect but am very secure and confident about myself and that is that!
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I've said it once and I'll say it again. The ones on this forum who sound the most retarded are probally the ones having the most sex.

They can easily relate with the chicks and have no idea what they are doing and just keep doing whatever they are doing over and over until the have sex.

The ones who write out long posts are probally nerds and probally tell themselves that they are too good for chicks and that's why they rarely have sex. Anytime a guy says he is too good for a chick it means he's scared.
 
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He said he was the best DJ.

And yeah I want sex thats why I and other guys come to this forum. That and to laugh at fvcked up sh!t.

I want to take advice from guys who have the most sex and are REJECTED the LEAST possible amount of times.
 
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Isn't there enough drama with women - geez. Learn to filter crap.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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lol what drama?

I want to take advice from somebody who knows they are talking about.
 
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