"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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This is starting to annoy me! and especially so that all of you guys only respect certain members on this forum!! i would like to make it clear that just because you know some good theory, it doesnt mean that you are a good DJ! i am CERTAIN that some of the best 'real life' DJ's on this forum arent respcted as much as the likes of pook just beacuse they havent got any new innovative ideas or are posting countless threads mainly because THEY DONT HAVE A LIFE!

it is my guess that some of the guys on this forum who are well respected are actually complete nerds in real life! i am one of the best DJ's on this forum. DEAL WITH IT:cheer:
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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i am one of the best DJ's on this forum
Not with an outburst like that you aren't. Crying out for validation will only get you flamed by other members.

The best pick-up artist? maybe (but I doubt it). The best DJ? No.
 

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This is starting to annoy me! and especially so that all of you guys only respect certain members on this forum!!

Look at the abundance of post recently. Most are from people who have joined this year. Don't get me wrong,Im all for hearing from newer members but please consider what you are posting before you post it.

i would like to make it clear that just because you know some good theory, it doesnt mean that you are a good DJ!

It all depends on what your definition of a "good DJ" is. To each their own.

i am CERTAIN that some of the best 'real life' DJ's on this forum arent respcted as much as the likes of pook just beacuse they havent got any new innovative ideas or are posting countless threads mainly because THEY DONT HAVE A LIFE!

Do you ever consider that some of us are on the forum at work,school etc. passing time?

it is my guess that some of the guys on this forum who are well respected are actually complete nerds in real life!

Who said "nerds" can't pull women? Labeling someone a "nerd" is childish,alot of "nerds" that I know have decent loking girlfriends.
 

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Well stated blinkwatt. hot stuff, you may think you're hot stuff, but just coming out and saying that kinda stuff shows that there's got to be some kind of insecurity inside you. A real DJ, at least in my opinion, know's he's The Man, but he doesn't have to tell anyone. He just feels it from within. In this forum, it's not about who's the best DJ, or who knows the most. It's about bettering yourself, and making yourself into a better DJ. We all have the general idea of what a DJ is, but it's up to us to define him. For us to aquire the traits we think we need. The traits that will better help us become a DJ. It's about sharing our knowledge with everyone else, in order to help them better themselves. I've been here a long time and I've learned a lot, and seen a lot and experienced a lot, but i'm not any better than the rest. I'm here still trying to learn and help other learn. Being a DJ isn't just about bettering yourself. Being a DJ is about bettering yourself and helping others better themselves.
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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The Juan and only said:
Not with an outburst like that you aren't. Crying out for validation will only get you flamed by other members.

im not crying out for validation at all im simply making a point that some of the best DJ's on this forum are not being recognised.....though i do understand the concept before i get flamed again that there is no 'best DJ' as one should just seek for hapiness!!

BTW i am also not insecure....i ofcourse am not perfect but am very secure and confident about myself and that is that!
 

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I've said it once and I'll say it again. The ones on this forum who sound the most retarded are probally the ones having the most sex.

They can easily relate with the chicks and have no idea what they are doing and just keep doing whatever they are doing over and over until the have sex.

The ones who write out long posts are probally nerds and probally tell themselves that they are too good for chicks and that's why they rarely have sex. Anytime a guy says he is too good for a chick it means he's scared.
 

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He said he was the best DJ.

And yeah I want sex thats why I and other guys come to this forum. That and to laugh at fvcked up sh!t.

I want to take advice from guys who have the most sex and are REJECTED the LEAST possible amount of times.
 

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Isn't there enough drama with women - geez. Learn to filter crap.
 

"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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lol what drama?

I want to take advice from somebody who knows they are talking about.
 
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