How do I lose my "playa" image? Its starting to work against me with this chick Im working on at work. Her boyfriend treats her like sh1t and Im gonna open her eyes and let her see the world. I have already let her know that its gonna happen,"You know your boyfriend now is only temporary relief until you are ready to handle me". She never fights or says anything back,she is more stunned how upfront Iam about it. Now I have gotten her number,she got flakey when I asked her to lunch but she sent me a text saying "Sorry I'm babysitting" like she said she might when I asked her to lunch,no biggie. But with that background established another person who knows Im gonna wisk her away says that she doesnt want her to get hurt and go from "playa" to "playa"...Girls are fooled so easily,Im still a virgin but I go out with ALOT of women,funny how that works into everyone thinking I'm a *****. How do I lose part of my "playa" image? No women ever believes me when I say I'm a virgin.
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This is a new one...
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