How do I lose my "playa" image? Its starting to work against me with this chick Im working on at work. Her boyfriend treats her like sh1t and Im gonna open her eyes and let her see the world. I have already let her know that its gonna happen,"You know your boyfriend now is only temporary relief until you are ready to handle me". She never fights or says anything back,she is more stunned how upfront Iam about it. Now I have gotten her number,she got flakey when I asked her to lunch but she sent me a text saying "Sorry I'm babysitting" like she said she might when I asked her to lunch,no biggie. But with that background established another person who knows Im gonna wisk her away says that she doesnt want her to get hurt and go from "playa" to "playa"...Girls are fooled so easily,Im still a virgin but I go out with ALOT of women,funny how that works into everyone thinking I'm a *****. How do I lose part of my "playa" image? No women ever believes me when I say I'm a virgin.
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
This is a new one...
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