"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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blinkwatt

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How do I lose my "playa" image? Its starting to work against me with this chick Im working on at work. Her boyfriend treats her like sh1t and Im gonna open her eyes and let her see the world. I have already let her know that its gonna happen,"You know your boyfriend now is only temporary relief until you are ready to handle me". She never fights or says anything back,she is more stunned how upfront Iam about it. Now I have gotten her number,she got flakey when I asked her to lunch but she sent me a text saying "Sorry I'm babysitting" like she said she might when I asked her to lunch,no biggie. But with that background established another person who knows Im gonna wisk her away says that she doesnt want her to get hurt and go from "playa" to "playa"...Girls are fooled so easily,Im still a virgin but I go out with ALOT of women,funny how that works into everyone thinking I'm a *****. How do I lose part of my "playa" image? No women ever believes me when I say I'm a virgin.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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I can sympathise with you on this one.....I have had 2 girls turn me down in the last week due to my rep. They said they really liked me but didnt want to get hurt and knew my track record. They spoke to one of my past acquistions.

Basically....dont try and loose the image. Some of the image is what girls find attractive. Plus if you say your diffrent then your lieing.....

JUSTIFY THE IMAGE. What i say if people ask me is "Im looking for the women of my dreams and just going to have some fun while im doing it. I never mean to hurt anyone."


Im suprised your a virgin blink. I guess we all have our own areas of expertise.

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