rjaudenes
Don Juan
Hello guys,
Im typing from Brazil, São Paulo (so excuse me some writing mistakes!). A year ago i decided to enter at the "Dating World" after reading the book "How to succed with Woman" and after many hard work (developing stylle, flerting skills, etc.) i find a girl who really liked, but things didn't worked very well, to facilitate the compreension i will describe the process:
1. Rafael (I) meet the girl on the net (a relationship site)
2. Rafael talk to this girl about five days (talking romantic conversations, talking about HER interests, etc.) and get a conection with her
3. First Date - She arives late (30 minutes). After 3 minutes of conversation we kiss about two hours (!)
4. Day after the date - She call me to say me a strange thing: - Rafael, i like you, but if i found a persone who i get more connected i will go out, so i respond to her im responsible for my feelings, she told she liked the answer (really strange, but i decided to go on)
5. Second Date - Using the information of our conversations i prepare a dinner in my home, she acepted, i prepared an italian vegetarian food (she is not eat meat) and bought her favorite chocolate, things go very well, she like very much the food and we go to the sofa, we kiss but she not allowe me to make sex with her, i decide to not insist, we kiss more, and the date finished
6. After Second Date - Things starting getting to bad...i make the mistake to call she one time per day, (onde day i called 5 times...), and the phone conversations are getting down, she don't respond my dating invitations - this situation was during about 10 days, i decided too talk to other girls
7. Rafael's Decision - The situation above is not working to me, so i decide to call she and ask she what's happening! She told she still having feelings by a guy who's a jerk and kicked she and i decide to finish all in name o my self-esteem
8- After Decision - I still like she, so is very difficult to mantain distance, so i keep calling she in a very few frequency (1 time per week), and she tell me she is dating another guy, she ask me if have any hope to conquer her, i inswer no (
Well, this is the history, im still believe if i can conquer she if i continue with the romantic topic conversations, increase myself, talking about her interests (in a two times per month frequency), because she like it. But, before enter at this duvidous journey (with a high emotional risk) i would like to know the opinion of you, guys and DJ's who have more experience, if you agree or not, or if you have another idea...
In another way, im talking to other girls, having another dates, and doing life work for me, i think is unnceptable play all balls on that girl.
Thanks!
Rafael
Im typing from Brazil, São Paulo (so excuse me some writing mistakes!). A year ago i decided to enter at the "Dating World" after reading the book "How to succed with Woman" and after many hard work (developing stylle, flerting skills, etc.) i find a girl who really liked, but things didn't worked very well, to facilitate the compreension i will describe the process:
1. Rafael (I) meet the girl on the net (a relationship site)
2. Rafael talk to this girl about five days (talking romantic conversations, talking about HER interests, etc.) and get a conection with her
3. First Date - She arives late (30 minutes). After 3 minutes of conversation we kiss about two hours (!)
4. Day after the date - She call me to say me a strange thing: - Rafael, i like you, but if i found a persone who i get more connected i will go out, so i respond to her im responsible for my feelings, she told she liked the answer (really strange, but i decided to go on)
5. Second Date - Using the information of our conversations i prepare a dinner in my home, she acepted, i prepared an italian vegetarian food (she is not eat meat) and bought her favorite chocolate, things go very well, she like very much the food and we go to the sofa, we kiss but she not allowe me to make sex with her, i decide to not insist, we kiss more, and the date finished
6. After Second Date - Things starting getting to bad...i make the mistake to call she one time per day, (onde day i called 5 times...), and the phone conversations are getting down, she don't respond my dating invitations - this situation was during about 10 days, i decided too talk to other girls
7. Rafael's Decision - The situation above is not working to me, so i decide to call she and ask she what's happening! She told she still having feelings by a guy who's a jerk and kicked she and i decide to finish all in name o my self-esteem
8- After Decision - I still like she, so is very difficult to mantain distance, so i keep calling she in a very few frequency (1 time per week), and she tell me she is dating another guy, she ask me if have any hope to conquer her, i inswer no (
Well, this is the history, im still believe if i can conquer she if i continue with the romantic topic conversations, increase myself, talking about her interests (in a two times per month frequency), because she like it. But, before enter at this duvidous journey (with a high emotional risk) i would like to know the opinion of you, guys and DJ's who have more experience, if you agree or not, or if you have another idea...
In another way, im talking to other girls, having another dates, and doing life work for me, i think is unnceptable play all balls on that girl.
Thanks!
Rafael
I wish more posts were straight to the point like this.