"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.

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This interest thing

JackPrescott

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Originally posted by Pure Drive +
This post sucks. It's too damn negative and breeds a loser mindset.

Just because you fail once doesn't mean you should give up. If everyone did that then we'd still be back in the stone age.

Also, just because a girl's family might be more important to her than going on a DATE with you, you're going to next her? Give me a break!
I disagree 110%, it is not meant to be negative, but to give DJ's good insight to that horrid creature of human origin known as the "uninterested female"....uninterested females will come up with any and all excuses in the book, not to spend "one on one" time with you. Many of them are "party girls" and would rather spend a Friday night at "Da Club" than dinner and drinks, followed by your or her place. Many simply wouldnt ***k you under any circumstances, and wont waste any time on you, but dont wanna come off as total biatches, so instead of being bluntly honest and telling you "I'm sorry, I dont find you even vaguely attractive" they say "Yes" and then a few days later call and cancel with some lame duck excuse like "I need to wash my hair that night.".....leaving the guy in a pissed off, and frustrated state, after looking forward to the date for a few days, and perhaps even bragging to his buddies about it.

That being said, it is better to weed out uninterested females, and keep to the interested ones. Uninterested ones are "ok" to be buddies with, and you know, it is not all totally bad to have female bros, sometimes they have other friends, cousins sisters, ect, who may be interested in you. I have female friends who I wouldnt mind getting naked with, but I know they arent into me, so instead we hang out, have a drink, ect. Sometimes it's good to have some female insight, but they are on a completley different level/planet than the ones I am sexually pursuing.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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jiza101

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Honest and to the point, well said :cool:
My mate is in this situtation, this girl he wants keeps saying she can't do anything cause she has to go with ehr college buddies etc, i want to tell him to forget her and move on but its kinda hard telling this to your best friend.....
 

LongDrinkofWater

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its kinda hard telling this to your best friend.....
Jiza, just point your friend to this website, and let him draw his own conclusions......
 
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