"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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**** this ****ing life..

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**** this life. I hate the ****ing feelings i have for this girl. She ****ing played me since i started talking to her. I did all the wussy things a nice guy would. and now no way to take it back . after the knowledge i received from DJS AS yALLL. **** i want her bad and no way to get her. She has a boyfriend and waht can i do gain her nothing,. **** You All:rockon:
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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MooseGod

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well **** you too and have a nice day. :flowers:

seriously though? next her. Save the feelings for a cheesy hallmark card.

EDIT: Just remembered something my friend's dad told me that might be a useful insight: Women are like buses, ya miss one, just catch the next one that comes along.
 

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Anikan bro don't turn to the dark side. Trust me on this one.:nono:
 

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I don't believe you.
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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Fag

milrenkb said:
I don't believe you.
Hey Faget Senior DJ What the **** Do you Mean i dont believe u sut your fagget ass up and teach me how to how to get this ***** on my donk.:yes:
 

swifTy

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Anikan said:
Hey Faget Senior DJ What the **** Do you Mean i dont believe u sut your fagget ass up and teach me how to how to get this ***** on my donk.
haa haa haa.
killa bro. killa.
 

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Anikan said:
Hey Faget Senior DJ What the **** Do you Mean i dont believe u sut your fagget ass up and teach me how to how to get this ***** on my donk.:yes:
Bro, try to keep it mellow here, or everyone is gonna realize your 14 years old or something. Instead of getting reactive, why not just ask, "why dont you believe me?" 5 posts and your already on the way to getting banned.
 

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Dongfu said:
Bro, try to keep it mellow here, or everyone is gonna realize your 14 years old or something. Instead of getting reactive, why not just ask, "why dont you believe me?" 5 posts and your already on the way to getting banned.
Its alright Dongfu, the guys just messing around. Let him have his fun. If it gets out of control the mods will just ban him.

Anakin, I know you're ****ing around but for the record

"teach me how to how to get this ***** on my donk."

This made my day.
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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milrenkb said:
Its alright Dongfu, the guys just messing around. Let him have his fun. If it gets out of control the mods will just ban him.

Anakin, I know you're ****ing around but for the record

"teach me how to how to get this ***** on my donk."

This made my day.
A man i aint playing i really do need help this **** has been going on for a year for me. I did all thi nice things a nice guy woould do flowers,poetry etc.
You know most girsl dont get that nowadays i thought thing would be diffrent, i ****ed up now my emotions are gettin the best of me and i cant stop thinking about her. I just want her to realize that i aint no wuzz. I really want to get her worshipping the god that i am. **** its not easy to express.Happy Fag teach or forever hold ur peace.
 

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iqqi said:
Make her best friend fall in love with you. use dj tactics this time.
He man her best is is her team player. i cant get to her thats the sister of her boyfriend,*****. she instigated the whole ****. hey what does the parable mean Confucius.
 
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Maybe she doesnt want you because you're the type of guy to have a tantrum on the internet. Grow up man. Stop acting like a chump. You're a pu$$y. You cry about things on the internet. Total loser. You sould fix that.
 

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**** yourself, man.
You're operating out of a scarcity mentality. It's pathetic.
You're only defining yourself with this rant, dude, not this website or any 'DJ' on here.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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Anikan said:
A man i aint playing i really do need help this **** has been going on for a year for me. I did all thi nice things a nice guy woould do flowers,poetry etc.You know most girsl dont get that nowadays i thought thing would be diffrent, i ****ed up now my emotions are gettin the best of me and i cant stop thinking about her. I just want her to realize that i aint no wuzz. I really want to get her worshipping the god that i am. **** its not easy to express.Happy Fag teach or forever hold ur peace.
See the contradiction?

Also, for having acquired all this "DJ knowledge", it doesn't seem like you've been applying too much of it.
 

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Anikan said:
**** this life. I hate the ****ing feelings i have for this girl. She ****ing played me since i started talking to her. I did all the wussy things a nice guy would. and now no way to take it back . after the knowledge i received from DJS AS yALLL. **** i want her bad and no way to get her. She has a boyfriend and waht can i do gain her nothing,. **** You All:rockon:
Wow! U knew about this site and still acted like a pu$$. You deserve everything that happened to you then.
 

MooseGod

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I hear if you take a bottle of sleeping pills and drink a fifth of Jack that no woman can resist you...













But you seem really dumb, so I'm going to explain that I'm being sarcastic. I'd feel bad if you really killed yourself.
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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