This has helped me a lot.

"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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Don Juan

Aug 20, 2006

I am not a Player/Alpha yet. I have become alot more successfull with woman this summer. And one thing that I believe is really important that a lot of people are missing is this.

Have more than one girl. Girl's are extremely jealous and having more than one(i'm working on about 3 right now. Could be 5) makes you much more "in demand" and girls tend to go nuts over guys who are busy with other girls.

It also makes you less desperate to hang out with one girl, You have other options which is so important.

I'm living by this motto of mine for Senior year.

"Why have one girlfriend when I can have five?"

"Nervous Around Beautiful Women? There's a Rule for That"

I could talk to any woman I wasn't attracted to. Charming, funny, relaxed. Then a gorgeous woman looked my way and I'd become a sweating, babbling mess.

The fix took me years to find and ten minutes to learn. Nervousness and excitement are the same physical state — pounding heart, adrenaline, flushed face. Your brain just picks the label. And you can pick a better one.

Rule 16 shows you how. You feel the nerves, relabel them as excitement, and let that energy pour out as enthusiasm. Women notice the guy radiating it. They always do.