"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Life-Trainee

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When I feel low on confidense especially in public places I found it helpful to look at my reflection in something. Which gives a temporary confidence boost. I'm content with my looks that's probably why. Anyone do similar?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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skinnydart

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I get depressed when I look in the mirror, so instead I tape a lifesize photo of a male model on my wall and spray a high gloss finish on it, does the trick.
 

Don_Joffe

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If your confidence needs a boost their are other ways to do it then looking at yourself, you should be confident at all times if your not you havent motivated youself to read the bible, the bible has given me my lost confidence.
 

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I do it. The mirror is a good place to look I suppose, if your confident about the way you look.

If not then think about something that you are confident about yourself with

maybe your good at a sport, good at art, writing, music, whatever...
 

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When I'm feeling low confidence I just have a few more drinks, then i'm invincible!!!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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