"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Life-Trainee

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When I feel low on confidense especially in public places I found it helpful to look at my reflection in something. Which gives a temporary confidence boost. I'm content with my looks that's probably why. Anyone do similar?
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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I get depressed when I look in the mirror, so instead I tape a lifesize photo of a male model on my wall and spray a high gloss finish on it, does the trick.
 

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If your confidence needs a boost their are other ways to do it then looking at yourself, you should be confident at all times if your not you havent motivated youself to read the bible, the bible has given me my lost confidence.
 

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I do it. The mirror is a good place to look I suppose, if your confident about the way you look.

If not then think about something that you are confident about yourself with

maybe your good at a sport, good at art, writing, music, whatever...
 

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When I'm feeling low confidence I just have a few more drinks, then i'm invincible!!!
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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