I was talking on the phone and she said your gonna be my boyfriend then im like naaa and shes like yaaa. is she just joking around or what? shes always tellin me she misses me and tells me she likes me. and that no one makes fun of her or talks down to her and is as rude as i am? sooo im wondering if what she meant is a joke or she means it?
"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
This girls says I'm GOING to be her boyfriend?
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"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.
Make a step and try her. You just have to "transfer the game into her half".Try to answer her words,i mean if she says : oh , you will be my boyfriend , you may say something like : Oh , wonderful idea,what about a nightwalk tomorrow?matygee said:
It's 100% sure that she likes you,but you need to see how big this "likeness" is.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
"nah girl, you're not my type.
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When in doubt, do what will get you LAID.
The answer here is very obvious.
The answer here is very obvious.
"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"
She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.
Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.
The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
She wants you. Play it cool, KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING. No need to revamp your game at this point.
Docs
Banned
I know exactly how this works! Is she shy when shes around you? If yes, then it's a freaking perfect storm. I've had this happen, and pretty well, she's too shy to admit it, but she's drolling over your picture every night. Point in case, her interest is skyhigh and you should focus on anticipation, hot and cold, and just plain making her damn day sometime.
"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"
You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.
For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.
Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.
The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.
Well...yesterday I talked to her on the phone for 3 hours (She lives pretty flipping far from me, we dont see each other that often). I plan on not talking/calling her for a week now maybe two, is this a good idea?
(Nope no oneitis I always tell myself that I'm ready to leave at anytime which I am. But shes a virgin so i wanna score that)
(Nope no oneitis I always tell myself that I'm ready to leave at anytime which I am. But shes a virgin so i wanna score that)
Docs
Banned
A week is probably best. Read what I said.
hey bro do you think you coud list some specific examples of anticipation as well as hot and cold. I'm sure I know and do most of this already but if you gave some examples so I could be sure and other people could read them as well that would be great.Docs said:
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Banned
Well, I found that keeping her guessing as to whether you like her works well, as well as 'discovering from her that she likes you, and then bugging her about it', or playing those 'what would you do if the guy you liked was..... games' with her.
As for hot and cold, give her a hug one day, and be aloof the next, tease her the next day and disappear for another.
As for hot and cold, give her a hug one day, and be aloof the next, tease her the next day and disappear for another.
"She's Out of Your League"
You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.
Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.
She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.
Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.
Why is everyone so perverted? Is everything about "sex" and "getting laid?" Good Lord, people. Have you no sense of morales?
If everyone is just out to get "f*** buddies" then maybe that's why divorce rates are so high. Sad, when you think about it.
If everyone is just out to get "f*** buddies" then maybe that's why divorce rates are so high. Sad, when you think about it.
Docs
Banned
*singing off key* Cryyy me a rivvarrrr, ohh babyy....crryyyy, CRRyyy *screeechhhh*, you stupid bitzatch, you cheat on mee ass and pretend that I should care *sniffle*...cry me a riverrrrr.
Haha. Good enough?
Haha. Good enough?
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Hold on. Did I read it right? Did you actually talk to her on the phone for 3 goddamned hours?
Christ. Stop now.
Besides that, this should be an easy slam dunk da funk.
Christ. Stop now.
Besides that, this should be an easy slam dunk da funk.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
The next time you're out with her and she's in one of those flirty "you're gonna be my boyfriend moods", just straight up grab her hand and just keep walking with her like nothing's up. IN!
"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."
Attraction runs on a clock.
She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.
The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."
One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.
Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.