I was talking on the phone and she said your gonna be my boyfriend then im like naaa and shes like yaaa. is she just joking around or what? shes always tellin me she misses me and tells me she likes me. and that no one makes fun of her or talks down to her and is as rude as i am? sooo im wondering if what she meant is a joke or she means it?
"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"
Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.
She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.
Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.
So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.
The words come later. The impression comes first.
This girls says I'm GOING to be her boyfriend?
- Thread starter matygee
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."
Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Make a step and try her. You just have to "transfer the game into her half".Try to answer her words,i mean if she says : oh , you will be my boyfriend , you may say something like : Oh , wonderful idea,what about a nightwalk tomorrow?matygee said:
It's 100% sure that she likes you,but you need to see how big this "likeness" is.
Patrick124
Master Don Juan
"nah girl, you're not my type.
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When in doubt, do what will get you LAID.
The answer here is very obvious.
The answer here is very obvious.
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
Skilla_Staz
Master Don Juan
She wants you. Play it cool, KEEP DOING WHAT YOU'RE DOING. No need to revamp your game at this point.
Docs
Banned
I know exactly how this works! Is she shy when shes around you? If yes, then it's a freaking perfect storm. I've had this happen, and pretty well, she's too shy to admit it, but she's drolling over your picture every night. Point in case, her interest is skyhigh and you should focus on anticipation, hot and cold, and just plain making her damn day sometime.
"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
Well...yesterday I talked to her on the phone for 3 hours (She lives pretty flipping far from me, we dont see each other that often). I plan on not talking/calling her for a week now maybe two, is this a good idea?
(Nope no oneitis I always tell myself that I'm ready to leave at anytime which I am. But shes a virgin so i wanna score that)
(Nope no oneitis I always tell myself that I'm ready to leave at anytime which I am. But shes a virgin so i wanna score that)
Docs
Banned
A week is probably best. Read what I said.
hey bro do you think you coud list some specific examples of anticipation as well as hot and cold. I'm sure I know and do most of this already but if you gave some examples so I could be sure and other people could read them as well that would be great.Docs said:
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Banned
Well, I found that keeping her guessing as to whether you like her works well, as well as 'discovering from her that she likes you, and then bugging her about it', or playing those 'what would you do if the guy you liked was..... games' with her.
As for hot and cold, give her a hug one day, and be aloof the next, tease her the next day and disappear for another.
As for hot and cold, give her a hug one day, and be aloof the next, tease her the next day and disappear for another.
"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"
You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.
She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.
Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.
Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.
Why is everyone so perverted? Is everything about "sex" and "getting laid?" Good Lord, people. Have you no sense of morales?
If everyone is just out to get "f*** buddies" then maybe that's why divorce rates are so high. Sad, when you think about it.
If everyone is just out to get "f*** buddies" then maybe that's why divorce rates are so high. Sad, when you think about it.
Docs
Banned
*singing off key* Cryyy me a rivvarrrr, ohh babyy....crryyyy, CRRyyy *screeechhhh*, you stupid bitzatch, you cheat on mee ass and pretend that I should care *sniffle*...cry me a riverrrrr.
Haha. Good enough?
Haha. Good enough?
Centaurion
Master Don Juan
Hold on. Did I read it right? Did you actually talk to her on the phone for 3 goddamned hours?
Christ. Stop now.
Besides that, this should be an easy slam dunk da funk.
Christ. Stop now.
Besides that, this should be an easy slam dunk da funk.
ValleyDJing
Master Don Juan
The next time you're out with her and she's in one of those flirty "you're gonna be my boyfriend moods", just straight up grab her hand and just keep walking with her like nothing's up. IN!
"I just moved here from Florida."
That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?
She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."
She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.
I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.
Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.