"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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devoid657

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So basically there is this girl that i want to ask out.
At the moment we're still getting to know each other and i don't want to be talking too much to her (because i don't want to be friendzoned). But the problem is, that there are other guys after her, and I'm not that great looking. I've looked through everything i can find regarding what I should do in this situation but what I really need is some tailored advice. Any help?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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You do not need "tailored advice". This is the standard question yet everyone who asks seems to think their situation is unique, it's not. Take action, ask her out, pull her etc. it's damn easy
 
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