"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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devoid657

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So basically there is this girl that i want to ask out.
At the moment we're still getting to know each other and i don't want to be talking too much to her (because i don't want to be friendzoned). But the problem is, that there are other guys after her, and I'm not that great looking. I've looked through everything i can find regarding what I should do in this situation but what I really need is some tailored advice. Any help?
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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DanZy

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You do not need "tailored advice". This is the standard question yet everyone who asks seems to think their situation is unique, it's not. Take action, ask her out, pull her etc. it's damn easy
 
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