"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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There's this one girl who I've been talking to for about a month now. We weren't official yet but we were getting there. We held hands, kissed, you know all that stuff. Now here comes the problems. At first it was her friend who had told her that I cheated on her back in middle school and I wouldn't be a good boyfriend. It was years ago, but I didn't even do anything with the other girl, but we blew by that. After that, it was when another girl said that she should "watch out" for me because of one of my previous relationships. Mind you, these girls talking about me aren't even close to me anymore, but there fast to talk about me. Anyway, we blew by that to. But today, **** dropped. She wasn't replying to me, just straight ignoring me. At the end of the day she sent me something talking about " I don't know who's lying". I'm like what the ****? She refuses to tell me what's wrong, other than somebody's lying about something. I've never even lied to her, but we just ended things between us a few hours ago. I don't know what I should do.
I need advice.
 

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Woah...I felt slight tinges of dejavu there, if you read my journal, I encountered this situation with a girl named Eyez. A grd 8 chick told her that I was getting it on with her friend, when in reality all I ever did to that girl was greeting her. Like your girl, she changed, was moody all the damn time and I just couldn't stand it. So I dumped her and never looked back, I didn't even try to justify myself because I was innocent, my pride wouldn't let me.

So, its been months now, and she has learned the truth I think, because she keeps trying to establish contact, I'm aloof though, and I've moved on so I don't pay her any attention despite her subtle efforts.

So, leave her man. If it was meant to be! She will come back, if not...well.
 
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