"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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iRose

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There's this one girl who I've been talking to for about a month now. We weren't official yet but we were getting there. We held hands, kissed, you know all that stuff. Now here comes the problems. At first it was her friend who had told her that I cheated on her back in middle school and I wouldn't be a good boyfriend. It was years ago, but I didn't even do anything with the other girl, but we blew by that. After that, it was when another girl said that she should "watch out" for me because of one of my previous relationships. Mind you, these girls talking about me aren't even close to me anymore, but there fast to talk about me. Anyway, we blew by that to. But today, **** dropped. She wasn't replying to me, just straight ignoring me. At the end of the day she sent me something talking about " I don't know who's lying". I'm like what the ****? She refuses to tell me what's wrong, other than somebody's lying about something. I've never even lied to her, but we just ended things between us a few hours ago. I don't know what I should do.
I need advice.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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Woah...I felt slight tinges of dejavu there, if you read my journal, I encountered this situation with a girl named Eyez. A grd 8 chick told her that I was getting it on with her friend, when in reality all I ever did to that girl was greeting her. Like your girl, she changed, was moody all the damn time and I just couldn't stand it. So I dumped her and never looked back, I didn't even try to justify myself because I was innocent, my pride wouldn't let me.

So, its been months now, and she has learned the truth I think, because she keeps trying to establish contact, I'm aloof though, and I've moved on so I don't pay her any attention despite her subtle efforts.

So, leave her man. If it was meant to be! She will come back, if not...well.
 
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