So theres this girl who's in my spanish class, she sits right infront of me and turns around to see what im doing/talks to me alot during class. She always picks me for a partner when we do paired work and after we finish we pick on each other jokingly etc. and talk. But i'm not sure whether she likes me or not i talk to her alot in school and we walk together out of school(spanish is the last class for the day) but im still not sure if she likes me simply because she also seems to talk to other guys alot though not as much as me i still feel..idk..i also feel shes to good for me. She says she doesnt have a cell phone which i dont understand but maybe her parents are just strict or somthing. But i was thinking of askin her to the movies then if that goes well to homecoming but im not quite sure yet.. any advice/thoughts?
"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"
She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.
You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.
She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.
The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.
This girl...
- Thread starter Dpac
- Start date
"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"
You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.
And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.
Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.
The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.
it was my only free day that weekend : l