"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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This girl...

Dpac

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So theres this girl who's in my spanish class, she sits right infront of me and turns around to see what im doing/talks to me alot during class. She always picks me for a partner when we do paired work and after we finish we pick on each other jokingly etc. and talk. But i'm not sure whether she likes me or not i talk to her alot in school and we walk together out of school(spanish is the last class for the day) but im still not sure if she likes me simply because she also seems to talk to other guys alot though not as much as me i still feel..idk..i also feel shes to good for me. She says she doesnt have a cell phone which i dont understand but maybe her parents are just strict or somthing. But i was thinking of askin her to the movies then if that goes well to homecoming but im not quite sure yet.. any advice/thoughts?
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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KillaCam

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Too much thinking and not enough acting. Ask her out, there are no excuses.

She is not better than you. If you think that, you've already defeated yourself. Chin up, ask her out, and tell us how it goes.

Easy.
 

Dpac

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So i asked her to a movie and she said she had to do somthing that day :( it was my only free day that weekend : l
 
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