"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Dpac

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So theres this girl who's in my spanish class, she sits right infront of me and turns around to see what im doing/talks to me alot during class. She always picks me for a partner when we do paired work and after we finish we pick on each other jokingly etc. and talk. But i'm not sure whether she likes me or not i talk to her alot in school and we walk together out of school(spanish is the last class for the day) but im still not sure if she likes me simply because she also seems to talk to other guys alot though not as much as me i still feel..idk..i also feel shes to good for me. She says she doesnt have a cell phone which i dont understand but maybe her parents are just strict or somthing. But i was thinking of askin her to the movies then if that goes well to homecoming but im not quite sure yet.. any advice/thoughts?
 

"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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Too much thinking and not enough acting. Ask her out, there are no excuses.

She is not better than you. If you think that, you've already defeated yourself. Chin up, ask her out, and tell us how it goes.

Easy.
 

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So i asked her to a movie and she said she had to do somthing that day :( it was my only free day that weekend : l
 
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