"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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This girl wants me to come bang her

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Told her I could pick her ass up but i'll be sending a bill for the gas money... LOL.. and now she's wants to know "where we are going"
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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So I just asked her if she is "any good in bed?"

She said "I hope so :) my previous boyfriend really liked it"

How should I reply?
 

619joe

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Dude in all honesty like the other guy said,you dont need our help.

You are at a very good stage now and you dont need our help anymore really.I mean you seem to want it and so does she so its not like without our help your gonna mess up.If you really think that then i guess its ok to ask us but I highly doubt it....

Just go with the flow man and you will be fine
 

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Stop texting and get over there and hit it already.
 

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DoctorLW said:
Stop texting and get over there and hit it already.
I'm with this guy.

Get back to us AFTER you've done something. The blow by blow conversation isn't really necessary.
 

"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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Alright, after weeks of texting and talking on the phone I finally got a date set with this girl for Sunday. We've both had conflicting schedules but this is it. I'm picking her up @ her place. This should be good! Will post a field report soon.
 
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AznPlaya said:
THEN GO FUCING BANG HER ? Why the fuc do u need our approvel ?
Just making conversation, what the hell else is there to do at 5am?
 
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