"You Can't Argue a Woman Into Liking You"

You made your case like a lawyer. Stable job. Good guy. Ready for something real. All true. All irrelevant.

She weighed your points, nodded along, felt nothing — then fell hard for some tattooed bartender with a motorcycle and a gambling problem.

Logic is where attraction goes to die. The "22 Rules" work a level deeper, on the subconscious switches that decide within minutes whether you register as a MAN or as part of the furniture.

Stop presenting evidence. Start flipping switches.

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This girl tells me why her interest for me is high!

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I got this girl to cook dinner for me on sunday evening, had a great time! didn't leave her place until 3am, needless to say I did what I had to do, even then she wouldn't let me go. Anyways, while having food she told me why she likes me etc... I didn't ask, she just brought it by saying I am different to other guys, I thought I should share with you guys.

1. I have an aura of confidence

I showed this by keeping eye contact, kino and the way I present myself; The way I talk, stand, walk, postures etc... I also show that I lift weight and have a busy life.

2. I have a strong mentality

Nothing she does effects me, I keep my emotions in check, I did get emotional at one point during dinner because I talked about a friend who passed away. It was not intentional, this actually went in my favor; she saw my soft side.

3. I am different because I don't hound her like most guys do

I don't text much, although I want to contact her all the time but I controlled myself. I call once a week, try keep it light and set up dates at the end of the convo. I always find excuses to hang up after the date is set.

4. I am hard to read, she likes the fact that I am mysterious and keep asking if I am seeing anyone else.

I don't let anything up, she asks if I like her before and I turned the questions on her. I would say something halfway then pull back. I would mention other friends that are girls in our convo, this keeps her wondering about me and other women.

All the things she mentioned I've learnt from here, hope it help guys like me who's trying to learn the way of the DJ.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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That's exactly what works.

The problem with a lot of guys here is they spend soooo much time texting smiley faces to their girls, or talking about feelings, or hanging out 7 days a week...

Girls want men. They want you to be difficult to tie down. They don't want to hear you talk about feelings. They dont want little smiley faces sent via texts. They SAY they do. But that's not reality. Strong and silent (as long as you can loosen up and be fun) always wins over sweet and sentimental.

Good stuff.
 
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Reports like this are very practical and useful, H.

Good work. Just don't let that "soft side" make itself too apparent to her. It does appear that you understand that. It's easy for a guy to show that soft side, and she responds favorably, and suddenly we get conditioned to let it out more and more, until what she first thought was cute is now revolting. Again, H, I know you understand this. I write for the benefit of newbies who might be reading.

Thanks for sharing this.
 
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Iceberg said:
That's exactly what works.

The problem with a lot of guys here is they spend soooo much time texting smiley faces to their girls, or talking about feelings, or hanging out 7 days a week...

Girls want men. They want you to be difficult to tie down. They don't want to hear you talk about feelings. They dont want little smiley faces sent via texts. They SAY they do. But that's not reality. Strong and silent (as long as you can loosen up and be fun) always wins over sweet and sentimental.
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Well articulated, Iceberg. The DJ mindset in a nutshell.
 
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did you bang her yet? I assume so if you're leaving at 3 am. if not, this post is meaningless.
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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thats perfect...the key is to maintain it indefinitely.
 
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st_99 said:
did you bang her yet? I assume so if you're leaving at 3 am. if not, this post is meaningless.
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What else could I be doing untill 3!
 
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pdx1138 said:
thats perfect...the key is to maintain it indefinitely.
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amen! (i posted the following before i read your reply)

the trick is learning how to maintain and continue to demontrate all of those qualities in the long term with the same chick

its something i struggle with off and on myself

recognizing that these are the qualities that women respond to is very important in and of itself
 
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Iceberg said:
That's exactly what works.

The problem with a lot of guys here is they spend soooo much time texting smiley faces to their girls, or talking about feelings, or hanging out 7 days a week...

Girls want men. They want you to be difficult to tie down. They don't want to hear you talk about feelings. They dont want little smiley faces sent via texts. They SAY they do. But that's not reality. Strong and silent (as long as you can loosen up and be fun) always wins over sweet and sentimental.

Good stuff.
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Put this as your sig!
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Iceberg said:
That's exactly what works.

The problem with a lot of guys here is they spend soooo much time texting smiley faces to their girls, or talking about feelings, or hanging out 7 days a week...

Girls want men. They want you to be difficult to tie down. They don't want to hear you talk about feelings. They dont want little smiley faces sent via texts. They SAY they do. But that's not reality. Strong and silent (as long as you can loosen up and be fun) always wins over sweet and sentimental.

Good stuff.
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Nicely said! I agree!:rockon:
 
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