theapprentice
Don Juan
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This girl thats in my class has liked me for about a year. About 4 months ago we started hanging out more, maybe once a week or so. Go to lunch on college campus.
But nothing ever evolved out of it. Partly my fault.
The thing with this girl is that trying to get her to commit to a time and place is so hard. She gives evasive answers, which I have tried to counter with my own cleverness.
But no avail. She wont set a time a date for something.
Im just wondering how do I figure out when I'm trying to hard and not getting the idea or when Im not trying hard enough. Because their is no clear signal.
When I back off, and put my mind elsewhere, I start to think about her. Thoughts like "Maybe if I tried harder, or was more slick...etc"
When I ask her out she finds a way to be busy or have a reason for being busy.
I called her out on her sh*t and she said she was sorry and it seemed like she meant it.
But thats besides the point. She keeps giving me little clues that she likes me, by always wanting to talk to me and always being flirty and you get the feeling that the person is trying to win you approval which means they want you to like them.
I get that feeling but she keeps making it hard for me to ask her out.
What should I do?
I don't want to just throw an oppurtunity away because to be honest I don't get that many. Maybe 2 girls will like me in a year to give me their number.
I know you guys are going to tell me I should forget about it.
Which is my choice.
But like I said, Im just wondering how do I figure out when I'm trying to hard and not getting the idea or when Im not trying hard enough. Because their is no clear signal?
But nothing ever evolved out of it. Partly my fault.
The thing with this girl is that trying to get her to commit to a time and place is so hard. She gives evasive answers, which I have tried to counter with my own cleverness.
But no avail. She wont set a time a date for something.
Im just wondering how do I figure out when I'm trying to hard and not getting the idea or when Im not trying hard enough. Because their is no clear signal.
When I back off, and put my mind elsewhere, I start to think about her. Thoughts like "Maybe if I tried harder, or was more slick...etc"
When I ask her out she finds a way to be busy or have a reason for being busy.
I called her out on her sh*t and she said she was sorry and it seemed like she meant it.
But thats besides the point. She keeps giving me little clues that she likes me, by always wanting to talk to me and always being flirty and you get the feeling that the person is trying to win you approval which means they want you to like them.
I get that feeling but she keeps making it hard for me to ask her out.
What should I do?
I don't want to just throw an oppurtunity away because to be honest I don't get that many. Maybe 2 girls will like me in a year to give me their number.
I know you guys are going to tell me I should forget about it.
Which is my choice.
But like I said, Im just wondering how do I figure out when I'm trying to hard and not getting the idea or when Im not trying hard enough. Because their is no clear signal?