Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.
You've been "getting ready" for two years.
She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.
Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.
I see naked pics online all the time......Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.
Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?
You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.
Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.
Hm. Well that's a stupid question isn't it? Good luck with that.Dante420 said:and I for a good amount of time (until I moved my mind onto 420 and food related plans) the thought of getting up in between her sexy thighs was and just not leave for 2 hours were intense. Why did I have this reaction?
Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."
You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.
She's been waiting forty minutes.
Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.
comedy on here2-D said:@ DJ Hero - I see your stake and I raise! I had the topless at 11
Also, you can obviously shag her, and it's fine to brag about/share your achievement so don't try to pretend you are angry that you couldn't stop thinking about her naked. You obviously did the right things to get her comfortable to show her body to you, so you should be proud, or maybe you just look attractive to her.
Congratz!
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