"So, What Do You Do for Fun?"

She asks it casually, mid-sip. And you feel the floor open up, because the honest answer is work, gym, and a couple shows you're half-watching.

Women rarely say this out loud, but a man with a life is attractive before he says a word. The guy who spent Saturday deep-sea fishing and came back with photos and a story — he walks in already interesting.

The "22 Rules" pushed me to build a life worth talking about. Turns out the fastest way to be interesting to women is to be interested in your own life first.

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This girl seems nice

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Modest, intelligent, emotionally balanced person, and... modest wardrobe of only turtleneck sweaters.

Supposing this isn’t just a well crafted YouTube persona, this is the type of chick who’d make a good, loyal, long term partner / wifey.

Is it just me or are women like this increasingly rare these days? Maybe she’s a Mormon / country girl or something IDK, but it would be nice to find a diamond in the rough like this more often.

ETA: unless I come across a woman who demonstrates similar characteristics / values, then I’d prefer to remain single. Anything less is a waste of time, and guaranteed trouble.

 
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"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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While some women generally do like turtlenecks, I will say I've known some gals that's been sexually assaulted in the past and that's the reason why they wear them. This could present a whole other world of hidden mental issues too.
 

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While some women generally do like turtlenecks, I will say I've known some gals that's been sexually assaulted in the past and that's the reason why they wear them. This could present a whole other world of hidden mental issues too.
Yeh, that’s a possibility, but her actual personality seems nice. She exudes integrity. But then, BPD’s also initially seem like the perfect catch, until the red flags start to show. Unfortunately, for many poor saps, they’ve been love / sex bombed during honeymoon phase - to the point where they experience cognitive dissonance even when they reveal who they really are.
 

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Yeh, that’s a possibility, but her actual personality seems nice.
Even if she doesn't have bpd, a nice personality may not mean fulfilling necessarily. Take a sexually assaulted girl for example that might wear turtle necks and have a good personality. She might have some ptsd or issues in the bedroom which doesn't equate to fulfilling in all regards.

With both guys and girls that's faced adversities in life, you have to see if it defined them, defeated them, or strengthened them and go from there. :up:
 

"She Made Her Decision Before You Finished Your Sentence"

Three seconds. That's how long it took. Your shoes. Your posture. The way you held your drink. Whether you looked at the floor or looked at her.

She already filed you away. Interesting. Boring. Safe. Bold. Before you even opened your mouth.

Everything you say after that is just her confirming what she already decided.

So stop rehearsing lines. Fix the first three seconds. Stand tall. Look up. Smile like you mean it. Walk like you belong wherever you're standing.

The words come later. The impression comes first.

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You can't be serious dude.
Just because you’re into sub-human garbage who indulges in sodomy (like yourself), don’t judge me for having a preference for females of substance.

Guys / gals who enjoy sh1t dipping deserve each other. [sewage] water seeks out its own level, evidently.
 

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Just because you’re into sub-human garbage who indulges in sodomy (like yourself), don’t judge me for having a preference for females of substance.

Guys / gals who enjoy sh1t dipping deserve each other. [sewage] water seeks out its own level, evidently.
No I'm judging you for having a preference for fantasy females that don't actually exist in your life. Scouring turtleneck videos for wife material is not how you become more attractive to women.

For all you know, this girl takes multiple monster d!cks up her pooper before squirting it out into a martini glass and drinking it. In fact, she seems like the type. Trust me. I know the type ;)
 

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No I'm judging you for having a preference for fantasy females that don't actually exist in your life. Scouring turtleneck videos for wife material is not how you become more attractive to women.

For all you know, this girl takes multiple monster d!cks up her pooper before squirting it out into a martini glass and drinking it. In fact, she seems like the type. Trust me. I know the type ;)
Well, perhaps not exist in my life at this point or perhaps never, but preferable to have no lady, than some Tinder *** dumpster who takes it up the ***

And that last paragraph of absolute depravity... I won’t dignify it with a response.

First for my ignore list.
 
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While some women generally do like turtlenecks, I will say I've known some gals that's been sexually assaulted in the past and that's the reason why they wear them. This could present a whole other world of hidden mental issues too.
How is a turtleneck supposed to prevent sexual assault? I don't get it. Harvey Weinstein isn't going to let that stop him.
 

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Modest, intelligent, emotionally balanced person, and... modest wardrobe of only turtleneck sweaters.

Supposing this isn’t just a well crafted YouTube persona, this is the type of chick who’d make a good, loyal, long term partner / wifey.

Is it just me or are women like this increasingly rare these days? Maybe she’s a Mormon / country girl or something IDK, but it would be nice to find a diamond in the rough like this more often.

ETA: unless I come across a woman who demonstrates similar characteristics / values, then I’d prefer to remain single. Anything less is a waste of time, and guaranteed trouble.

She's certainly cute and I like the way she dresses. But you can't make assumptions about her personality based on this.

She could be stringing 100 orbiters along and have an onlyfans for all you know.
 

“The 22 Psychological Triggers That Make Women Chase You… Starting Tonight”

Forget the cash, the cars, and the chiseled jawlines. Female desire operates on a completely different frequency. Primal. Subconscious. Triggers that bypass her logic and hit her on a gut level. Most guys are totally blind to them.

I know because I was one of them. The overthinking. The paralysis. The silent drive home kicking yourself for freezing up. Watching average guys walk away with the girl while you stood there stuck in your own head.

Then I decoded the psychology behind what actually makes women tick. 22 hard rules.  Subtle behavioral shifts that rewired my entire reality. The anxiety evaporated. Women started leaning in. Investing. Chasing.

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She's certainly cute and I like the way she dresses. But you can't make assumptions about her personality based on this.

She could be stringing 100 orbiters along and have an onlyfans for all you know.
Entirely possible. I don’t know the girl personally, but she seems to radiate integrity. It would be nice to actually spend time with a woman who had a similar personality. Regardless, I don’t make anyone my world, it just leads to fear of loss, and acting out in the way a weak, desperate simp would.
 

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This girl ain't so innocent, fellas. Aggressive in front of the camera = "experienced" in other aspects of life.
 

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This girl ain't so innocent, fellas. Aggressive in front of the camera = "experienced" in other aspects of life.
Having watched a few of her vids in the past, she seemed to be a little low key shy / awkward, but who knows? Could be a carefully crafted persona to cater to specific audience. Also, I think I recall a vid she put out warning guys about simping, avoiding Thots, etc. She took a year hiatus off Youtube to focus on her medical studies in Uni, as I recall.
 

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Modest, intelligent, emotionally balanced person, and... modest wardrobe of only turtleneck sweaters.

Supposing this isn’t just a well crafted YouTube persona, this is the type of chick who’d make a good, loyal, long term partner / wifey.

Is it just me or are women like this increasingly rare these days? Maybe she’s a Mormon / country girl or something IDK, but it would be nice to find a diamond in the rough like this more often.

ETA: unless I come across a woman who demonstrates similar characteristics / values, then I’d prefer to remain single. Anything less is a waste of time, and guaranteed trouble.


Meh, she has a cute girl next door type personality. But other than that, this video tells you absolutely nothing about her. I would not be so quick to label her high quality OP. Impossible to tell from this. She kind of has a Donna from the tv show that 70s show vibe going on.
 

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Meh, she has a cute girl next door type personality. But other than that, this video tells you absolutely nothing about her. I would not be so quick to label her high quality OP. Impossible to tell from this. She kind of has a Donna from the tv show that 70s show vibe going on.
Yeh, she used to be regular vlogger on YT, but deleted her account for a year or so. She always seemed virtuous, but, yeh, you can only really know someone by having been up, close, personal with them for considerable length of time... pretty much like social media, and how everyone only presents showreel of highlights from their lives... carefully cherry picked to present them in the best possible light.
 

"She's Out of Your League"

You've said it a hundred times. Maybe a thousand. And every time you say it, you train your brain to freeze the next time she walks into the room.

Leagues are a myth invented by guys who are scared of women.

She's a person. She has bad breath in the morning. She picks songs she can't sing in the shower. She overthinks her own texts.

Walk over. Say something. The league dissolves the second you open your mouth.

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Yeh, she used to be regular vlogger on YT, but deleted her account for a year or so. She always seemed virtuous, but, yeh, you can only really know someone by having been up, close, personal with them for considerable length of time... pretty much like social media, and how everyone only presents showreel of highlights from their lives... carefully cherry picked to present them in the best possible light.
Women are experts at showing themselves in the best light. Sometimes the most innocent-looking girls are the biggest sluts. And women that look like sluts are often just attention whoares.
 
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