"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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This girl never calls/text me first.

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She is very receptive to hang out,never flakes on me,always returns my calls or texts. But..she has never initiated anything first. This drives me crazy...:cool:
I haven't had anything sexual with her yet..and that the way I want to keep it for now.She seems very conservative.
I see her once a week usually on friday or saturday night. We go see a movie or a show.
So has anyone been in a situation like this?..
 

“The 22 Rules That Flip the Script With Women… And How You Can Use Them Tonight”

Most guys accidentally kill attraction before they even speak. They assume they need a bigger bank account, a better physique, or smoother lines. They miss the point.

Female desire operates on a specific set of psychological triggers.  Break them, and you're invisible. Follow them, and you become magnetic.

I learned this the hard way. Years of freezing up. Getting friend-zoned. Watching other guys walk away with the girl I wanted. Then I discovered a set of 22 simple rules that rewired my entire approach.

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Are you giving her a chance to contact you or you always initiating? How ofter are you calling this girl? Are you contacting her daily? Are you giving her chance to prove herself to you or are you up her as s all the time?
 
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I call her maybe once a week to schedule a date/hangout. Maybe text her once every other day..or even less. I haven't called/texted her in almost two weeks and I haven't heard from her yet. But I am sure if did, we could hangout again. She doesn't have that much social life from what I know.
 
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It sounds like she's letting you lead. You should be happy to have a girl who doesn't keep tabs on you and is always down for something with you. Just keep things going like they are until she throws some hurdles. Then start reevaluating the situation.
 
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