"She Wants a Man, Not a Boy"

You asked her if she wanted to grab coffee. Then you asked if the time worked. Then you asked if the place was okay. Then you asked if she'd prefer tea.

Four questions. Four chances for her to say no. Four signals that you're terrified of making a decision.

Plan it. Pick the place. Pick the time. Tell her where to meet you. She'll either show up or she won't.

Either way, you look like a man instead of a scared little boy.

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This girl never calls/text me first.

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She is very receptive to hang out,never flakes on me,always returns my calls or texts. But..she has never initiated anything first. This drives me crazy...:cool:
I haven't had anything sexual with her yet..and that the way I want to keep it for now.She seems very conservative.
I see her once a week usually on friday or saturday night. We go see a movie or a show.
So has anyone been in a situation like this?..
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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Are you giving her a chance to contact you or you always initiating? How ofter are you calling this girl? Are you contacting her daily? Are you giving her chance to prove herself to you or are you up her as s all the time?
 
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I call her maybe once a week to schedule a date/hangout. Maybe text her once every other day..or even less. I haven't called/texted her in almost two weeks and I haven't heard from her yet. But I am sure if did, we could hangout again. She doesn't have that much social life from what I know.
 
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It sounds like she's letting you lead. You should be happy to have a girl who doesn't keep tabs on you and is always down for something with you. Just keep things going like they are until she throws some hurdles. Then start reevaluating the situation.
 
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