"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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This girl: Looks and height matters

antidonjuan

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I was discussing about what girls look in a guy and what guys look in a girl with my female friends today. One of them said: if you are shorter than a girl, you have no chance with her. And she also said: looks do matter.

What is going on? This is a real life girl talking about this and I am confused. She kept on addressing height is a very important factor.
I know there are alot of people say that looks aint matter (in the adult world) but does it apply in the high school world?

Today I began to second guess myself: Would a beautiful girl go for a guy with an ugly face and short?
 

"Why Women Dump the Guys Who Try the Hardest"

You paid for dinner. You drove. You said "whatever you want is fine" every single time. All the effort, no expectations.

And she left anyway — probably for a guy who makes her pick up the pizza.

Painful. Also predictable. Her mind quietly concludes that anything requiring zero effort from her is worth exactly zero. You became a free sample, and free samples get taken for granted.

The 22 Rules flip the dynamic. Small shifts that get her investing effort, money, and time in you — until SHE'S the one afraid of losing YOU.

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HA is right.
Most high school girls havent matured and will be very shallow.

Looks and coolness is what gets you girls in high school. Maybe for collage too, im not there yet.
 

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Look antidonjuan, your here, I am sure you are familiar with our beliefs and have probably read the DJ Bible. One of the big things here is that girls don't know what they want. I'm not sure if it applies in high school but if you ask a girl what she wants then she will describe an AFC! "Oh I want a nice guy who takes care of me, shares his feelings blah blah". Then she goes and fcks the hot jerk. Sound familiar?

Now people might say looks and height matter in high school, who gives a fck! I don't like saying that because it leads to limiting beliefs which are pointless and hinder us. See look what it has doen alread, your beggining to second guess yourself! Would you rather be confident or second guessing yourself? It's as simple as that. I would rather be confident.

Even if being short does matter, what is better, wallowing in pity or accepting it and having a blast? A girl will always go with what she FEELS. If your looks and height do that for you, great! If they don't just do it some other way, that's where this website comes in. If you can make her feel nothing else matters. Raise your social proof, make her laugh, make her cry, take her on an adventure... and she will be yours.

Seriously am I the only guy who sees short guys with hot taller girls and ugly guys with hot popular girls? Aparantly. The thing is these guys always have something else going for them.

So just forget what you can't change. It will only hold you back needlessly. Work on changing everything you can to better yourself, although even now you are fine as you are. Acceptance. Just accept it and it wont bother you anymore.

Hmm hope I managed to help at least a bit. Seriously those *****es saying that to some other guy could fck up their whole lives pointlessly and needlessly. They are only 2 girls you know.
 

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SinJester said:
Look antidonjuan, your here, I am sure you are familiar with our beliefs and have probably read the DJ Bible. One of the big things here is that girls don't know what they want. I'm not sure if it applies in high school but if you ask a girl what she wants then she will describe an AFC! "Oh I want a nice guy who takes care of me, shares his feelings blah blah". Then she goes and fcks the hot jerk. Sound familiar?

Now people might say looks and height matter in high school, who gives a fck! I don't like saying that because it leads to limiting beliefs which are pointless and hinder us. See look what it has doen alread, your beggining to second guess yourself! Would you rather be confident or second guessing yourself? It's as simple as that. I would rather be confident.

Even if being short does matter, what is better, wallowing in pity or accepting it and having a blast? A girl will always go with what she FEELS. If your looks and height do that for you, great! If they don't just do it some other way, that's where this website comes in. If you can make her feel nothing else matters. Raise your social proof, make her laugh, make her cry, take her on an adventure... and she will be yours.

Seriously am I the only guy who sees short guys with hot taller girls and ugly guys with hot popular girls? Aparantly. The thing is these guys always have something else going for them.

So just forget what you can't change. It will only hold you back needlessly. Work on changing everything you can to better yourself, although even now you are fine as you are. Acceptance. Just accept it and it wont bother you anymore.

Hmm hope I managed to help at least a bit. Seriously those *****es saying that to some other guy could fck up their whole lives pointlessly and needlessly. They are only 2 girls you know.
abso-fvcking-lutely awesome. couldn't have put it better myself :rockon:
 

"How I Made Sure No Woman Ever Friend-Zoned Me Again"

She calls you when her car breaks down. When she needs help moving. When some guy she's actually dating treats her badly.

You're the listener. The reliable one. The guy who would treat her so much better, if she'd just open her eyes.

She won't. You trained her to see you as the low-effort option — the friend who requires zero risk and zero investment. Every favor dug the hole deeper.

The "22 Rules" break the pattern. You'll stop auditioning for a role she already cast and become the man she chases instead. It starts with Rule 1.

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same thing goes with race, btw. though people consider me to be good-looking, I am pretty short compared to kids nowadays and im asian, but despite how people say that asian guys dont stand a chance with anybody but asian girls (and many of the white chicks ARE rather racist when it comes to guys, yeah) I got hit on by three russian hotties (HB9), one czech (HB8), and one turk (a 6...) in one week ;)
 

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SinJester said:
Look antidonjuan, your here, I am sure you are familiar with our beliefs and have probably read the DJ Bible. One of the big things here is that girls don't know what they want. I'm not sure if it applies in high school but if you ask a girl what she wants then she will describe an AFC! "Oh I want a nice guy who takes care of me, shares his feelings blah blah". Then she goes and fcks the hot jerk. Sound familiar?

Now people might say looks and height matter in high school, who gives a fck! I don't like saying that because it leads to limiting beliefs which are pointless and hinder us. See look what it has doen alread, your beggining to second guess yourself! Would you rather be confident or second guessing yourself? It's as simple as that. I would rather be confident.

Even if being short does matter, what is better, wallowing in pity or accepting it and having a blast? A girl will always go with what she FEELS. If your looks and height do that for you, great! If they don't just do it some other way, that's where this website comes in. If you can make her feel nothing else matters. Raise your social proof, make her laugh, make her cry, take her on an adventure... and she will be yours.

Seriously am I the only guy who sees short guys with hot taller girls and ugly guys with hot popular girls? Aparantly. The thing is these guys always have something else going for them.

So just forget what you can't change. It will only hold you back needlessly. Work on changing everything you can to better yourself, although even now you are fine as you are. Acceptance. Just accept it and it wont bother you anymore.

Hmm hope I managed to help at least a bit. Seriously those *****es saying that to some other guy could fck up their whole lives pointlessly and needlessly. They are only 2 girls you know.
very good post bro:up:
 

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There is a difference between what women "say" they want and what they actually react to.

An example could be; My girlfriend use to only date black men. She said it was something about their swagger made her have the hots for them. Anyways now, she is dating me and I'm white.
 

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SinJester said:
Look antidonjuan, your here, I am sure you are familiar with our beliefs and have probably read the DJ Bible. One of the big things here is that girls don't know what they want. I'm not sure if it applies in high school but if you ask a girl what she wants then she will describe an AFC! "Oh I want a nice guy who takes care of me, shares his feelings blah blah". Then she goes and fcks the hot jerk. Sound familiar?

Now people might say looks and height matter in high school, who gives a fck! I don't like saying that because it leads to limiting beliefs which are pointless and hinder us. See look what it has doen alread, your beggining to second guess yourself! Would you rather be confident or second guessing yourself? It's as simple as that. I would rather be confident.

Even if being short does matter, what is better, wallowing in pity or accepting it and having a blast? A girl will always go with what she FEELS. If your looks and height do that for you, great! If they don't just do it some other way, that's where this website comes in. If you can make her feel nothing else matters. Raise your social proof, make her laugh, make her cry, take her on an adventure... and she will be yours.

Seriously am I the only guy who sees short guys with hot taller girls and ugly guys with hot popular girls? Aparantly. The thing is these guys always have something else going for them.

So just forget what you can't change. It will only hold you back needlessly. Work on changing everything you can to better yourself, although even now you are fine as you are. Acceptance. Just accept it and it wont bother you anymore.

Hmm hope I managed to help at least a bit. Seriously those *****es saying that to some other guy could fck up their whole lives pointlessly and needlessly. They are only 2 girls you know.
Don't EVER question that again ;)

Outstanding post....I'm sure you haven't heard that yet (he says sarcastically).
 

"The Coffee Shop Girl You Never Spoke To"

You've replayed it a hundred times. She stood three feet away, scrolling her phone. You had an opening. You composed the perfect line — after she was gone.

For all you know, she's married now. To some guy who said something. Anything.

Openers are cheap. Almost any sentence works when it's delivered within three seconds. The expensive part is the standing there, drafting and deleting, while the window quietly closes.

The "22 Rules" stripped out my hesitation. What to open with, how to keep it alive, and the one habit that costs guys more women than anything else: waiting for perfect.

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