"You'll Never Feel READY to Walk Over"

Next Monday you'll feel more confident. After the gym you'll feel more confident. After one more drink you'll feel more confident. After you get a better haircut, a better jacket, a better job.

You've been "getting ready" for two years.

She's standing ten feet away right now. She'll be gone in four minutes. No amount of preparation will manufacture the courage that only comes from moving your feet.

Walk over. Stumble through the first sentence. Let it be clumsy. Let it be imperfect. You will feel more alive in those ten seconds than you have all month.

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this girl likes me, begin paying attention to her, now I'm attracted

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I am 28 years old, finished grad school, never had a chance to date girls. Recently out of job for 3 months, I hated my old job.

This girl is from a church I just started going. She's a little fat, and 2 years older.

One of her guy friend wants my number and grab food. I think she wants to know me.

I've been checking her Facebook everyday since. NOW I AM ATTRACTED TO HER.

Plenty of guys trying to approach her at church. She's indifferent. And woman like this don't like to be approached. If she is interested, she will let you know.

I need someone with similar experience to help me.
 
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"She Liked You in March. It's October Now."

Attraction runs on a clock.

She flirted for weeks. Touched your arm. Found reasons to be alone with you. And you were careful. Respectful. Waiting for the right moment.

The moment had a shelf life. It expired around month two, and by the time you asked her out, she'd quietly filed you under "little brother."

One of the hardest lessons inside the 22 Rules: women rarely wait. Interest either grows or it decays, and nothing decays it faster than a man who never moves.

Make the move while she's still inventing reasons to be near you.

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Howcome there are no replies? Is this a hard question? Am I off-topic? In the wrong place?
 
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Walk up to her before or after church service and schedule a date.
 
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What's the problem here? You are afraid to talk to girls? Or you are falling in love with a girl by looking at her facebook?

Just read a DJ bible dude and you'll be alright.
 
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too nervous, I probably run away on my way to tell her, lol.

In terms of the bible, I have read Pook's posts.

what's a good progressive way to a guy who never dated? Me, walking up to her, is just gonna be awkward. I might even lose the friendship.
 

"Stop Asking Your Friends What to Text Her"

Your buddy Dave has been single for three years and thinks "hey u up" is a valid strategy. Your other buddy Mike just got dumped and told you to "just be yourself."

You showed them her text. You asked them to decode the emoji. You drafted four responses and sent the screenshot to the group chat for a vote.

She's been waiting forty minutes.

Put the phone down. Stop crowdsourcing your love life. Type something that sounds like you. Hit send. Then go do literally anything else with your evening.

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You're gonna fvck this up because you ooze beta.

You're 28 and you still don't get anything.

You run the show!! She wants YOU to run the SHOW!

SO...go and run the SHOW!!!!

But NEVER, EVER, EVER let a woman....RUN YOUR SHOW!!!!
 
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You had a chance to date girls. Even guys who live under the sea working in submarines get their chances.

She sounds kind of gross so just go for it and make it a learning experience. Don't get so focused on this one overweight 30+ yr old woman.
 
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hop On hop Off said:
I am 28 years old, finished grad school, never had a chance to date girls. Recently out of job for 3 months, I hated my old job.

This girl is from a church I just started going. She's a little fat, and 2 years older.

One of her guy friend wants my number and grab food. I think she wants to know me.

I've been checking her Facebook everyday since. NOW I AM ATTRACTED TO HER.

Plenty of guys trying to approach her at church. She's indifferent. And woman like this don't like to be approached. If she is interested, she will let you know.

I need someone with similar experience to help me.
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28 years old and never dated. Infatuated with a woman entering her early 30's and is probably seeking a beta provider. What could possibly go wrong? May the Lord guide your soul.
 
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