"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

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this girl likes me, begin paying attention to her, now I'm attracted

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I am 28 years old, finished grad school, never had a chance to date girls. Recently out of job for 3 months, I hated my old job.

This girl is from a church I just started going. She's a little fat, and 2 years older.

One of her guy friend wants my number and grab food. I think she wants to know me.

I've been checking her Facebook everyday since. NOW I AM ATTRACTED TO HER.

Plenty of guys trying to approach her at church. She's indifferent. And woman like this don't like to be approached. If she is interested, she will let you know.

I need someone with similar experience to help me.
 
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"She Laughed All Night. Then She Ghosted You. Here's Why."

Dinner ran three hours. She laughed at everything. You walked her to her car thinking this one's locked in.

Then: nothing. Two texts. No reply. What happened?

You did what most men do on a great date. You filled every silence, answered every question, and left her with nothing to wonder about. No mystery. Nothing to sit with when she got home.

Rule 3 of the "22 Rules" changes the ending: tell her a little, hold back the rest, and let her imagination do the chasing. The ghosting stops too.

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Howcome there are no replies? Is this a hard question? Am I off-topic? In the wrong place?
 

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Walk up to her before or after church service and schedule a date.
 

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What's the problem here? You are afraid to talk to girls? Or you are falling in love with a girl by looking at her facebook?

Just read a DJ bible dude and you'll be alright.
 

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too nervous, I probably run away on my way to tell her, lol.

In terms of the bible, I have read Pook's posts.

what's a good progressive way to a guy who never dated? Me, walking up to her, is just gonna be awkward. I might even lose the friendship.
 

"I'm Not Looking for Anything Serious Right Now"

When a woman says it, guys hear a confession. A heads-up. A scheduling conflict.

Here's the translation: I don't feel anything. Right now. With you.

Watch what happens when a man triggers actual attraction. The busy career, the recent breakup, the "not in a place to date" — all of it evaporates instantly. The same woman who was guarding her freedom is suddenly free every night.

The "22 Rules" explain why. When the right switches flip, her timeline rearranges itself around you.

Read more...

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You're gonna fvck this up because you ooze beta.

You're 28 and you still don't get anything.

You run the show!! She wants YOU to run the SHOW!

SO...go and run the SHOW!!!!

But NEVER, EVER, EVER let a woman....RUN YOUR SHOW!!!!
 

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You had a chance to date girls. Even guys who live under the sea working in submarines get their chances.

She sounds kind of gross so just go for it and make it a learning experience. Don't get so focused on this one overweight 30+ yr old woman.
 

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hop On hop Off said:
I am 28 years old, finished grad school, never had a chance to date girls. Recently out of job for 3 months, I hated my old job.

This girl is from a church I just started going. She's a little fat, and 2 years older.

One of her guy friend wants my number and grab food. I think she wants to know me.

I've been checking her Facebook everyday since. NOW I AM ATTRACTED TO HER.

Plenty of guys trying to approach her at church. She's indifferent. And woman like this don't like to be approached. If she is interested, she will let you know.

I need someone with similar experience to help me.
28 years old and never dated. Infatuated with a woman entering her early 30's and is probably seeking a beta provider. What could possibly go wrong? May the Lord guide your soul.
 
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