"The Kiss of Death Mistake"

You replay the conversation at 2 a.m. She texted back fast yesterday. Today, nothing. Was that smile friendly or flirty? What did the shoulder touch mean?

Every hour you spend decoding her signals drains your confidence and hands her the controls. Women can sense that insecurity from across the room — and it repels them.

One of the "22 Rules" kills the obsession on the spot: assume she likes you, and act accordingly. Sounds too simple. Works anyway.

Her interest tends to rise to meet your expectations. Psychologists call it a self-fulfilling prophecy.

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this girl is weird.....

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Well this girl i like a lot is very weird. She doesnt like compliments.ex. Me : those are nice pants. her : ew shut up.
but also when people are rude or what ever she just agrees with it even though its not true. Me : that shirt makes you look really fat. her : yeah i know im fat.

it just continues like that. you cant seem to offend her or compliment her. i ignore for months and she ignores me. but since we have the same friends we see each other from time to time. sometimes we talk but mainly because its part of the groups conversation, and when we do talk i end up getting rather upset and i simply walk away and ignore her. but she does the same. im not sure what would work to get her to really like me.
 

"I just moved here from Florida."

That sentence contains at least five follow-up questions she WANTS you to ask. Where in Florida? What brought you here? How long have you been in the area? What do you miss? How does it compare to here?

She handed them to you on a silver platter. And you said, "Oh cool. I come here every week. I love this band. Ummm... pretty crowded tonight."

She smiled politely. Nodded. And never texted you back.

I was that guy for years. Talking too much. Listening too little. Panicking about my next sentence while she was literally feeding me the answers.

Then I found 22 rules that fixed the whole thing. Rule number one: shut up and listen. She'll tell you exactly what to say.

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why bother?...find some other girl that doesn't confuse you like this, there are sooooooooooooooooooooo many girls out there dude, this one sounds annoying.
 
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I dated a girl like this once. I'd neg hit her and she would throw in a negative comment. She was bytch testing me to see if I would appologize for me saying some shyt. The girl was always negative and putting herself down (calling herself fat and other stupid shyt, but the girl is skinny as ****).

These girls really aren't worth the time and effort in my opinion because they aren't happy with themselves (low self esteem). Hanging around someone who is negative gets old fast. I just ended up nexting her because she put me in a depressing kind of mood every time I talked to her.
 
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Chicks compliment each other - let them do it.

There is no need for you to compliment her. You being with her is you complimenting her - remember that! You are double complimented her - being there and adding further compliments and she is feeling flooded. Thats what she is essentially saying in ******** via her emotions.
 
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